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363<a href="https://hospicediary.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/amy1.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-624" data-attachment-id="624" data-permalink="https://hospicediary.com/about/amy1/" data-orig-file="https://hospicediary.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/amy1.jpg" data-orig-size="157,215" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{"credit":"Chuck","created_timestamp":"1446738089"}" data-image-title="amy1" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-large-file="https://hospicediary.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/amy1.jpg?w=157" class="wp-image-624 size-full" src="https://hospicediary.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/amy1.jpg?w=640" alt="amy1" srcset="https://hospicediary.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/amy1.jpg 157w, https://hospicediary.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/amy1.jpg?w=110&h=150 110w" sizes="(max-width: 157px) 100vw, 157px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-624" class="wp-caption-text">Photo by filmmaker Carolyn Jones</p></div> 364<p>I didn’t start out as a hospice nurse. Maybe my early nursing years seem a long way off, but the collection of lessons I have learned from my very ill and dying patients span my first day as a new student nurse, discovering my patient had died in the night, to the last visit of my day today, where a loving elderly mother is the caregiver for her dying daughter. So much laughter and sadness intertwined… I’ve only just begun to learn how love covers all the unsightliness, how gifts are found in the midst of the ashes, and how beautiful the human spirit is. My hope: Hospice diary in a small way is sharing these gifts.</p> 365<p>Blessings- Amy Getter, MS, RN, CHPN</p> 366<div id="jp-post-flair" class="sharedaddy sd-like-enabled sd-sharing-enabled"><div class="sharedaddy sd-sharing-enabled"><div class="robots-nocontent sd-block sd-social sd-social-icon-text sd-sharing"><h3 class="sd-title">Share this:</h3><div class="sd-content"><ul><li><a href="#" class="sharing-anchor sd-button share-more"><span>Share</span></a></li><li class="share-end"></li></ul><div class="sharing-hidden"><div class="inner" style="display: none;"><ul><li class="share-email"><a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" 367 data-shared="sharing-email-1" 368 class="share-email sd-button share-icon" 369 href="mailto:?subject=%5BShared%20Post%5D%20What%20I%20Have%20Learned&body=https%3A%2F%2Fhospicediary.com%2Fabout%2F&share=email" 370 target="_blank" 371 aria-labelledby="sharing-email-1" 372 data-email-share-error-title="Do you have email set up?" data-email-share-error-text="If you're having problems sharing via email, you might not have email set up for your browser. 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We have discussed this phenomenon at work in our hospice unit and everyone has felt that guilt when the family looks at you and says what’s in that (.injection, sublingual) ? After the patient died within minutes. I tell my colleagues “When that happens, you were the very last one to try to ease that patient’s suffering, good job”. To the distraught family member I say ” That was medicine for (his/her) comfort”. “I’m so glad you were here for their last moment, good job”.</p>
425<p id="comment-like-959" data-liked=comment-not-liked class="comment-likes comment-not-liked"><a href="https://hospicediary.com/about/?like_comment=959&_wpnonce=a3951d1238" class="comment-like-link needs-login" rel="nofollow" data-blog="70661999"><span>Like</span></a><span id="comment-like-count-959" class="comment-like-feedback">Like</span></p> 426</div> 427 428 <div class="reply"> 429 <a rel="nofollow" class="comment-reply-link" href="https://hospicediary.com/about/?replytocom=959#respond" data-commentid="959" data-postid="1" data-belowelement="comment-959" data-respondelement="respond" data-replyto="Reply to Celeste Barefield, RN BSN" aria-label="Reply to Celeste Barefield, RN BSN">Reply</a> </div><!-- .reply --> 430 </div><!-- #comment-## --> 431 432 </li><!-- #comment-## --> 433 <li class="comment odd alt thread-odd thread-alt depth-1" id="li-comment-666"> 434 <div id="comment-666"> 435 <div class="comment-author vcard"> 436 <img referrerpolicy="no-referrer" alt='Gail Brockman's avatar' src='https://1.gravatar.com/avatar/160cca49a0b51fc54b9cfc7853bccbdd7df3d42ada3eeae940ac86187c79ffc1?s=40&d=identicon&r=G' srcset='https://1.gravatar.com/avatar/160cca49a0b51fc54b9cfc7853bccbdd7df3d42ada3eeae940ac86187c79ffc1?s=40&d=identicon&r=G 1x, https://1.gravatar.com/avatar/160cca49a0b51fc54b9cfc7853bccbdd7df3d42ada3eeae940ac86187c79ffc1?s=60&d=identicon&r=G 1.5x, https://1.gravatar.com/avatar/160cca49a0b51fc54b9cfc7853bccbdd7df3d42ada3eeae940ac86187c79ffc1?s=80&d=identicon&r=G 2x, https://1.gravatar.com/avatar/160cca49a0b51fc54b9cfc7853bccbdd7df3d42ada3eeae940ac86187c79ffc1?s=120&d=identicon&r=G 3x, https://1.gravatar.com/avatar/160cca49a0b51fc54b9cfc7853bccbdd7df3d42ada3eeae940ac86187c79ffc1?s=160&d=identicon&r=G 4x' class='avatar avatar-40' height='40' width='40' decoding='async' /> <cite class="fn">Gail Brockman</cite> <span class="says">says:</span> </div><!-- .comment-author .vcard --> 437 438 439 440 <div class="comment-meta commentmetadata"><a href="https://hospicediary.com/about/#comment-666"> 441 August 25, 2015 at 11:21 am</a> </div><!-- .comment-meta .commentmetadata --> 442 443 <div class="comment-body"><p>Amy, I produce a monthly newsletter for University Of California Davis Hospice (<a href="http://www.ucdmc.ucdavis.edu/homecare/hospice/" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.ucdmc.ucdavis.edu/homecare/hospice/</a>) volunteers and staff. It contains notes about meetings and also includes interesting articles from various sources. One of the volunteers recommended one of your posts be included in an upcoming newsletter. In particular, this is the one: Source: <a href="https://hospicediary.com/2015/03/02/chose-your-best-death/" rel="ugc">https://hospicediary.com/2015/03/02/chose-your-best-death/</a><br /> 444Please let me know if this use is okay.<br /> 445 Thank you, Gail Brockman ([email protected]).</p> 446<p id="comment-like-666" data-liked=comment-not-liked class="comment-likes comment-not-liked"><a href="https://hospicediary.com/about/?like_comment=666&_wpnonce=d3e3195000" class="comment-like-link needs-login" rel="nofollow" data-blog="70661999"><span>Like</span></a><span id="comment-like-count-666" class="comment-like-feedback">Like</span></p> 447</div> 448 449 <div class="reply"> 450 <a rel="nofollow" class="comment-reply-link" href="https://hospicediary.com/about/?replytocom=666#respond" data-commentid="666" data-postid="1" data-belowelement="comment-666" data-respondelement="respond" data-replyto="Reply to Gail Brockman" aria-label="Reply to Gail Brockman">Reply</a> </div><!-- .reply --> 451 </div><!-- #comment-## --> 452 453 <ul class="children"> 454 <li class="comment byuser comment-author-amygetter bypostauthor even depth-2" id="li-comment-667"> 455 <div id="comment-667"> 456 <div class="comment-author vcard"> 457 <img referrerpolicy="no-referrer" alt='Amy Getter's avatar' src='https://1.gravatar.com/avatar/d05478f3d6200c29589cabe760821fb50251e51ba31b044652e7baa6cb1b22bd?s=40&d=identicon&r=G' srcset='https://1.gravatar.com/avatar/d05478f3d6200c29589cabe760821fb50251e51ba31b044652e7baa6cb1b22bd?
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