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You are 170 not alone in knowing little about psychology and related professions 171 until now that you are looking into it. I hope that it will give you
172 some confidence to know that I am a NH-licensed psychologist, a graduate 173 of an APA-approved clinical psychology doctoral program, and am listed 174 in the National Register of Health Service Psychologists. over more than thirty years of practice, 175 I have worked in public and private, outpatient 176 and inpatient settings, and now maintain a small private practice in 177 Exeter, NH.</p> 178 <p class="style1"><em>My masters and doctoral degree are from the University 179 of Connecticut, my undergraduate work was at Brandeis University, and 180 my internship was at Worcester State Hospital and what was then the 181 Model Cities Mental Health Center. </em> 182 <span style="mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> 183 <em>While I have a general psychology practice, my specialty is in 184 marriage counseling and relationship counseling in NH, where I work with couples, and 185 with individuals, who are having problems establishing and maintaining 186 mutually fulfilling love relationships</em></span><em>. Co-author of "<a href="book.html">If This Is Love, Why Do I Feel 187 So Insecure?</a>," 26th printing (Fawcett/Ballantine Press) and working 188 from an attachment theory perspective, I am especially interested in 189 problems of insecurity and jealousy in relationships as well as in the 190 depression that accompanies a relationship's end. </em> </p> 191 <p class="bookquote"> 192 <span style="mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; font-style: normal;"> 193 <em>More than 60% of my work is marriage counseling, premarital 194 counseling, and relationship crisis intervention. I realize that couples 195 can spiral into difficult situations which neither really wants.</em></span><span style="font-style: normal"><em> Knowing that we all want similar basic "supplies" 196 in a relationship -- to feel wanted, cared for and understood, to look 197 forward to coming home and to time together, to enjoy the sharing of 198 lives -- we have to address why these dreams break down. I operate from 199 the premise that it's not because there is any "good person" 200 or "bad person." Rather, it is our fears and resentments which 201 build up over the years which interfere. For example, couples can find 202 themselves in "stand offs" where one won't provide love if 203 the other won't provide respect ... Or various other patterns where 204 each person's defenses interact with the other's, continuing a negative 205 cycle which causes the unhappiness of both. Therefore, the goal of relationship 206 counseling is that of starting a positive cycle, with greater awareness 207 and sensitivity to one another's needs and expectations. </em></span> </p> 208 <p class="style1"> 209 <span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> 210 <em>In addition to relationship work, I provide individual counseling 211 and psychotherapy for adults across a wide range of concerns. Among my 212 clients are folks facing unexpected life changes as well as new life 213 stage challenges and goals. They may be facing complicated family and 214 work place situations, have extended family concerns (for example, with 215 in-laws, siblings, aging parents), parenting stresses, or more inward 216 issues managing emotions (for example, depression, anxiety, bipolar 217 disorder, etc.) My clients are at many life stages, including teens and 218 young adults looking ahead to so many decisions, young families living 219 day-to-day with all the pressures of children and careers, midlife and 220 "empty nest" parents facing the next life stage as a couple or alone, 221 folks seeking more fulfillment in their retirement and reflecting on 222 their lives. Counseling and psychotherapy are about problems solving, 223 but also about self-exploration and personal growth. What constitutes 224 contentedness, happiness, fulfillment and sense of meaning and purpose 225 in life ... all are very individual. I am the first to say that I don't 226 have the answers, but I feel it is a privilege to help ask the questions 227 in different ways, encourage different perspectives from what I have 228 seen over the years, and share the pleasure in what you find. <br></em></span></p> 229 <p class="bookquote">Sincerely,</p> 230 <p class="bookquote"><font size="6" face="Edwardian Script ITC"> 231 <img border="0" src="images/signature.jpg" width="210" height="57"></font><br /> 232 Carl G. Hindy, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist, Exeter NH.</p> 233 <hr><p style="font-size: 11pt"> 234 </p> 235 <p style="font-size: 11pt"> 236 <b>
236Marriage Counseling and Premarital Counseling:</b></p> 237 <ul> 238 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Communication problems between women and men</li> 239 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Understanding his and her different needs</li> 240 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Affection, intimacy and sexuality concerns</li> 241 <li> 242 <span style="mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; font-size: 11pt;"> 243 Understanding and managing the repeating cycles of conflict</span></li> 244 <li> 245 <span style="mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; font-size: 11pt;"> 246 Improving decision making as a couple</span></li> 247 <li> 248 <span style="mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; font-size: 11pt;"> 249 Rebuilding understanding, empathy, and caring behaviors</span></li> 250 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Managing impulses, setting boundaries, and enhancing trust</li> 251 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Problems of attachment, separation, and loss</li> 252 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Sorting out thoughts and feelings, "Head" versus "Heart" in 253 relationships.</li> 254 </ul> 255 <p style="font-size: 11pt"><b>Individual Counseling & Family Counseling:</b></p> 256 <ul> 257 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Adjusting to changes in your life</li> 258 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Anxiety, depression, bipolar and other mood disorders</li> 259 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Balancing individuality, family and career</li> 260 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Setting goals for personal growth</li> 261 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Families of divorce, blended families</li> 262 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Helping adolescents in crisis</li> 263 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Parenting your child or teen</li> 264 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Cooperative parenting after divorce</li> 265 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Woman's issues</li> 266 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Transcending trauma and abuse</li> 267 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Understanding and improving relationships</li> 268 <li style="font-size: 11pt">Self-control of behavioral addictions to Internet, pornography, social media, etc.</li> 269 </ul> 270 <p align="center"> </p> 271 <p align="center">~ Carl G. Hindy, Ph.D. 272 ~<br /> 273 Exeter, New Hampshire (603) 880-8773</p> 274 <p align="center" class="titles" style="font-weight: normal"> 275 <a href="sitemap.htm">Site Map</a></p> 276 <p align="center" class="copyright">Copyright 1995-2024 Carl G. Hindy, Ph.D.<br /> 277 <a target="_blank" href="http://www.modernconcepts.org/"></a></p> 278 </blockquote></td> 279 </tr> 280 <tr> 281 <td width="13%" align="left" valign="top" background="images/left_side_bar.jpg" bgcolor="#B0BFCD" height="613"> </td> 282 </tr> 283</table>
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