PageSourceSearch

https://love-and-respect.webflow.io/blog/does-your-spouse-have-your-permission-from-steve-and-barbara-telzerow

html love-and-respect.webflow.io collected 2026-10-03 13:23:12 UTC 120,539 bytes, 1,010 lines download raw bytes

1<!DOCTYPE html><!-- Last Published: Thu Oct 01 2026 19:48:54 GMT+0000 (Coordinated Universal Time) --><html data-wf-domain="love-and-respect.webflow.io" data-wf-page="60343da2bb58a9674492acc2" data-wf-site="6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e" lang="en" data-wf-collection="60343da2bb58a9ff4d92acc0" data-wf-item-slug="does-your-spouse-have-your-permission-from-steve-and-barbara-telzerow"><head><meta charset="utf-8"/><link href="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com" rel="preconnect" crossorigin="anonymous"/><title>Does Your Spouse Have Your Permission? From Steve and Barbara Telzerow</title><meta content="Courtship and the first few months of marriage is a unique time in a couple’s relationship. We are usually focused on our partner’s strengths and rarely aware of the weaknesses or quirks that all of us have." name="description"/><meta content="Does Your Spouse Have Your Permission? From Steve and Barbara Telzerow" property="og:title"/><meta content="Courtship and the first few months of marriage is a unique time in a couple’s relationship. We are usually focused on our partner’s strengths and rarely aware of the weaknesses or quir
1ks that all of us have." property="og:description"/><meta content="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb26768776cde88fe33e/6ab311b4b43ef771290c500f_Does%20Your%20Spouse%20Have%20Your%20Permission%20-%20Steve%20and%20Barbara%20Telzerow.jpg" property="og:image"/><meta content="Does Your Spouse Have Your Permission? From Steve and Barbara Telzerow" name="twitter:title"/><meta content="Courtship and the first few months of marriage is a unique time in a couple’s relationship. We are usually focused on our partner’s strengths and rarely aware of the weaknesses or quirks that all of us have." name="twitter:description"/><meta content="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb26768776cde88fe33e/6ab311b4b43ef771290c500f_Does%20Your%20Spouse%20Have%20Your%20Permission%20-%20Steve%20and%20Barbara%20Telzerow.jpg" name="twitter:image"/><meta property="og:type" content="website"/><meta content="summary_large_image" name="twitter:card"/><meta content="width=device-width, initial-scale=1" name="viewport"/><meta content="google-site-verification=llNeybGp4LFtRsl1sz-uvkws0ueNUYHE_OgPfA8SStE" name="google-site-verification"/><link href="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/css/love-and-respect.webflow.shared.a945ed237.min.css" rel="stylesheet" type="text/css" integrity="sha384-qUXtI3f5Dh1FtHR9chIwuDNtpGPvuq5HrzxrN3IiOfesAQHZ7ArTxNENUvxaUzNY" crossorigin="anonymous"/>
1<script type="text/javascript">!function(o,c){var n=c.documentElement,t=" w-mod-";n.className+=t+"js",("ontouchstart"in o||o.DocumentTouch&&c instanceof DocumentTouch)&&(n.className+=t+"touch")}(window,document);</script>
1<link href="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/6160781f4376a99eb48eb1ff_favicon-32x32.png" rel="shortcut icon" type="image/x-icon"/><link href="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/6160788281103a9f192c4a88_Untitled%20design%20(6).png" rel="apple-touch-icon"/><link href="https://www.loveandrespect.com/blog/does-your-spouse-have-your-permission-from-steve-and-barbara-telzerow" rel="canonical"/>
1<script>(function(w,i,g){w[g]=w[g]||[];if(typeof w[g].push=='function')w[g].push.apply(w[g],Array.isArray(i)?i:[i]);})(window,['G-3QSX3L0EJH'],'google_tags_first_party');</script>
1<script async="" src="/haqt6iy0yx2eNjAzM2JiMDY4MTJkNGM2YjUyMWIwYzll/ezCV5XH6ytW1l5ky3kWKeF4nSbw"></script>
1<script type="text/javascript">window.dataLayer = window.dataLayer || [];function gtag(){dataLayer.push(arguments);}gtag('set', 'developer_id.dZGVlNj', true);gtag('set', 'developer_id.dYWYxNW', true);gtag('js', new Date());gtag('config', 'G-3QSX3L0EJH');</script>
1<script type="text/javascript">!function(f,b,e,v,n,t,s){if(f.fbq)return;n=f.fbq=function(){n.callMethod?n.callMethod.apply(n,arguments):n.queue.push(arguments)};if(!f._fbq)f._fbq=n;n.push=n;n.loaded=!0;n.version='2.0';n.agent='plwebflow';n.queue=[];t=b.createElement(e);t.async=!0;t.src=v;s=b.getElementsByTagName(e)[0];s.parentNode.insertBefore(t,s)}(window,document,'script','https://connect.facebook.net/en_US/fbevents.js');fbq('init', '2440625862641413');fbq('track', 'PageView');</script>
1<!-- Memberstack webflow package -->
2<script data-memberstack-app="app_cl9rd0g8f000i0uhx9twj96t0" src="https://static.memberstack.com/scripts/v1/memberstack.js" type="text/javascript">
3</script>
3
4
5<script type="text/javascript" async="" src="https://www.google-analytics.com/analytics.js"></script>
vendor: 67 bytes, lines 5-6
5
6<script async="" src="https://www.googletagmanager.com/gtag/js?id=
6UA-5622871-1
vendor: 13 bytes, lines 6-7
6"></script>
7
8<style>
9  @media only screen and (min-width: 1901px)  {
10    html{
11      font-size: 15px;
12    }
13  }
14
15  @media only screen and (max-width: 1900px) and (min-width: 992px)  {
16    html{
17      font-size: 13.5px;
18    }
19  }
20</style>
21<style>
22
23  input[type='number']::-webkit-inner-spin-button {
24    display: none;
25  }
26
27  input:-webkit-autofill,
28  input:-webkit-autofill:hover,
29  input:-webkit-autofill:focus,
30  textarea:-webkit-autofill,
31  textarea:-webkit-autofill:hover,
32  textarea:-webkit-autofill:focus,
33  select:-webkit-autofill,
34  select:-webkit-autofill:hover,
35  select:-webkit-autofill:focus {
36    transition: background-color 80000s ease-in-out 0s;
37    -webkit-text-fill-color: #0f1214 !important;
38  }
39
40  textarea {
41    resize: none;
42    overflow: auto;
43  }
44
45
46  .courses-preview-swiper, .trusted-leaders-swiper{
47    touch-action: pan-y;
48  }
49
50  .ask-emerson-card h3 {
51    display: -webkit-box;
52    -webkit-line-clamp: 4;
53    -webkit-box-orient: vertical;  
54    overflow: hidden;
55  }  
56  @media screen and (max-width: 991px) {
57    .ask-emerson-card h3 {
58      display: -webkit-box;
59      -webkit-line-clamp: 3;
60      -webkit-box-orient: vertical;  
61      overflow: hidden;
62    }
63  }
64  /*
65  @media screen and (min-width: 992px) {
66  .nav-dropdown-link.dd.active{
67  background: #f5f5f7;
68  pointer-events: none;
69  }
70  .nav-categories-filter-wrapper {
71  pointer-events: auto;
72  }
73  }
74  */
75
76
77  .slider-button-right:hover img,
78  .slider-button-left:hover img, 
79  .button-link:hover,
80  .button-link-double-arrow:hover{
81    filter: drop-shadow(0px 4px 0.5px rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.12));  
82  }
83  .slider-button-right:active img, 
84  .slider-button-left:active img, 
85  .button-link:active,
86  .button-link-double-arrow:active{
87    filter: drop-shadow(0px 0px 1.4px rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.3));  
88  }
89  .slider-button-image,
90  .button-link,
91  .button-link-double-arrow,
92  .button-link-double-arrow {
93    transition: all .2s ease;
94  }
95
96
97  @media only screen and (max-width: 767px) {
98    .swiper-slide.cms-item.collection-card.swiper-slide-active,
99    .swiper-slide.cms-item.other-courses.swiper-slide-active {
100      transform: scale3d(1, 1, 1);
101    }
102    .swiper-slide.cms-item.collection-card,
103    .swiper-slide.cms-item.other-courses{
104      transition: all .4s ease;
105      transform: scale3d(1, 0.9, 1);
106    }
107  }
108
109  .player-progress-bar-wrap:hover .player-progress-line {
110    height:11px;
111    border-radius:0px;
112  }
113  .player-progress-bar-wrap:hover .progress {
114    height:11px;
115    margin-top: 0px;
116    border-radius:0px;
117  }
118  .player-progress-bar-wrap:hover .progress-dot{
119    margin-top:0px;
120    opacity:0;
121  }
122
123  .w-lightbox-content {
124    display: flex;
125    justify-content: center;
126  }
127  /*
128  @media only screen and (min-width: 992px)  {
129  body {
130  zoom: 82%;
131  }
132  }
133  @media only screen and (min-width: 480px)  {
134  body {
135  zoom: 90%;
136  }
137  }
138  */
139</style>
140
141
142<!-- Google Tag Manager -->
143<script>
vendor: 423 bytes, lines 143-147
143(function(w,d,s,l,i){w[l]=w[l]||[];w[l].push({'gtm.start':
144                                                      new Date().getTime(),event:'gtm.js'});var f=d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0],
145      j=d.createElement(s),dl=l!='dataLayer'?'&l='+l:'';j.async=true;j.src=
146        'https://www.googletagmanager.com/gtm.js?id='+i+dl;f.parentNode.insertBefore(j,f);
147                            })(window,document,'script','dataLayer','
147GTM-M88VDVX7
vendor: 3 bytes, line 147
147');
147</script>
147
148<!-- End Google Tag Manager -->
149
150<!-- Ahrefs -->
151<script src="https://analytics.ahrefs.com/analytics.js" data-key="PiJHQGWmfykYTfdZojt5PQ" async></script>
151
152<!-- End Ahrefs -->
152<script src="https://flow-ninja-assets.s3.amazonaws.com/love-and-respect/item.min.js"></script>
152
153
154<!-- [Attributes by Finsweet] CMS Nest -->
155<script async src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/npm/@finsweet/attributes-cmsnest@1/cmsnest.js"></script>
155
156
157<style>
158  .mark-as-favourite-success,
159  .mark-as-fav-button {
160    outline: none;
161  }
162</style>
163
164<style>
165  .gated-content-overlay{
166    display: flex !important;
167  }
168</style>
169
170<script src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e%2F66ba5a08efe71070f98dd10a%2F671161f93c9a71106217338b%2Fm88vdvx7-1.1.1.js" type="text/javascript"></script>
170<script src="https://js.stripe.com/v3/" type="text/javascript" data-wf-ecomm-key="pk_live_nyPnaDuxaj8zDxRbuaPHJjip" data-wf-ecomm-acct-id="acct_1Ir0zFFLAlHtUFVO"></script>
170<script type="text/javascript">window.__WEBFLOW_CURRENCY_SETTINGS = {"currencyCode":"USD","symbol":"$","decimal":".","fractionDigits":2,"group":",","template":"{{wf {&quot;path&quot;:&quot;symbol&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;PlainText&quot;\\} }} {{wf {&quot;path&quot;:&quot;amount&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;CommercePrice&quot;\\} }} ","hideDecimalForWholeNumbers":false};</script>
170</head><body><div class="w-embed"><style>
171  @media screen and (min-width: 1600px) {
172    .section.podcast-hero-section {
173      height: 900px;
174    }
175  }
176  @media screen and (min-width: 2150px) {
177    .section.podcast-hero-section {
178      height: 1000px;
179    }
180  }
181  @media screen and (min-width: 2900px) {
182    .section.podcast-hero-section {
183      height: 1300px;
184    }
185  }
186 
187 .swiper-slide.cms-item .label-small {
188    display: none;
189  }
190  .swiper-slide.cms-item:first-child .label-small {
191    display: block;
192  }
193
194  @media only screen and (min-width: 768px)  {
195    .swiper-slide h3 {
196      display: -webkit-box;
197      -webkit-line-clamp: 3;
198      -webkit-box-orient: vertical;  
199      overflow: hidden;
200    }
201
202    .cms-item p {
203      display: -webkit-box;
204      -webkit-line-clamp: 4;
205      -webkit-box-orient: vertical;  
206      overflow: hidden;
207    }  
208
209    .cms-item .featured-card-content.featured p {
210      display: -webkit-box;
211      -webkit-line-clamp: 3;
212      -webkit-box-orient: vertical;  
213      overflow: hidden;
214    }  
215    .featured-card-content.featured.mobile-regular p, 
216    .featured-card-content.featured.mobile-regular h3 {
217      display: -webkit-box;
218      -webkit-line-clamp: 3;
219      -webkit-box-orient: vertical;  
220      overflow: hidden;
221    }
222    .cms-card-content h3 {
223      display: -webkit-box;
224      -webkit-line-clamp: 3;
225      -webkit-box-orient: vertical;  
226      overflow: hidden;
227    }
228  }
229
230  @media only screen and (max-width: 767px)  {
231    .swiper-slide:first-child h3 {
232      display: -webkit-box;
233      -webkit-line-clamp: 3;
234      -webkit-box-orient: vertical;  
235      overflow: hidden;
236    }
237
238    .swiper-slide h3 {
239      display: -webkit-box;
240      -webkit-line-clamp: 4;
241      -webkit-box-orient: vertical;  
242      overflow: hidden;
243    }
244  }
245</style>
246
247
248<style>  
249  @media only screen and (min-width: 768px)  {
250    .w-lightbox-frame, .w-lightbox-embed {
251      width: 70vw;
252      height: 70vh;
253    }
254  }
255  @media only screen and (max-width: 767px)  {
256    .w-lightbox-frame, .w-lightbox-embed {
257      width: 100vw;
258      height: 100vh;
259    }
260  }
261</style></div><div data-w-id="d70bc575-3611-e5aa-17fe-1914bf2a5cc4" data-animation="over-left" data-collapse="medium" data-duration="300" data-easing="ease" data-easing2="ease" role="banner" class="navigation w-nav"><div class="nav-styling---do-not-delete w-embed"><!-- Navigation styling on smaller desktop devices -->
262<style>
263  @media only screen and (max-width: 1430px) and (min-width: 992px)  {
264    .nav-link-line {
265      bottom: -26px;
266    }
267
268    .nav-link-line:medium {
269      display: none;
270    }
271
272    .nav-link, .nav-dropdown {
273      font-size: 14px;
274      margin-right: 16px;
275    }
276    .sign-in-button, .button.sign-up-button, .member-nav-dropdown{
277      margin-left: 16px;
278      font-size: 14px;
279    }
280    .nav-brand{
281      margin-right: 32px;
282      width: 150px;
283    }
284    .shopping-cart-icon{
285      width: 24px;
286    }
287    .cart{
288      margin-left: 16px;
289    }
290    .search-input.nav{
291      width: 13.4vw;
292      padding-left: 36px;
293    }
294    .search-loupe.nav {
295      left: 16px;
296      width: 14px;
297      height: 14px;
298    }
299  }
300</style>
301
302
303<!-- Navigation links stylying -->
304
305<style>
306
307  @media screen and (min-width: 992px) {
308    .nav-link.w--current .nav-link-line,
309    .nav-link:not(.w-current):hover .nav-link-line {
310      width:100%;
311    } 
312    .category-filter-link.w--current .category-filter-link-line{
313      min-width: 100%;
314      width:100%
315    }
316    .category-filter-link:not(.w-current):hover .category-filter-link-line{
317      width: 100%;
318    }
319    .nav-dropdown-link.w--current,
320    .nav-dropdown-link:not(.w--current):hover{
321      background: #F5F5F7;
322    }
323  }
324
325  @media screen and (max-width: 1400px) {
326    .nav-content-link-overlay{
327      display: block !important;
328    }
329  }
330</style></div><div class="hidden-css w-embed"><style>
331  .w-richtext p {
332    color: var(--dark) !important;
333  }
334</style></div><div class="nav-container"><div class="navigation-bg"></div><div class="nav-brand"><a href="/" data-ms-content="!all-access-membership" class="nav-brand-link w-nav-brand"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/633b363736f0ea09c8ce266e_image%201%20(Traced).svg" loading="lazy" alt="Love &amp; Respect Logo" class="nav-logo"/></a><a href="/member-home" data-ms-content="all-access-membership" class="nav-brand-link w-nav-brand"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/633b363736f0ea09c8ce266e_image%201%20(Traced).svg" loading="lazy" alt="Love &amp; Respect Logo" class="nav-logo"/></a></div><nav role="navigation" class="nav-menu w-nav-menu"><div class="nav-menu-mask"><div class="nav-menu-left"><div data-hover="false" data-delay="0" class="nav-dropdown w-dropdown"><div class="nav-dropdown-toggle w-dropdown-toggle"><div>Resources</div><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63582a7b074b986cb3f5cb0b_Vector%2016%20(1).svg" loading="lazy" alt="Arrow" class="nav-dropdown-arrow"/><div class="nav-link-line"></div></div><nav class="nav-dropdown-list w-dropdown-list"><div class="container grid nav-dropdown-container"><div id="w-node-_9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328bae11-bf2a5cc4" data-w-id="9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328bae11" class="nav-dd-link-wrapper"><div class="content-nav-link-wrap"><a href="/podcast" class="nav-dropdown-link dd w-inline-block"><div class="nav-dd-link-toggle"><div class="flex-horizontal"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63c99c8aee21bab93aa5b793_Podcast%20Icon.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Podcast Icon" class="dropdown-link-icon"/><div>
334Podcast</div></div><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63582a7b074b986cb3f5cb0b_Vector%2016%20(1).svg" loading="lazy" alt="Arrow" class="nav-dd-link-arrow"/></div><p class="nav-dd-link-paragraph">A weekly podcast with Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.</p></a><div class="nav-content-link-overlay"></div></div><div class="nav-categories-filter-wrapper podcast"><div class="container dropdown-filters-container"><div class="filter-category-label podcast">Filter by Category:</div><div class="categories-filter-wrapper podcast"><a href="/podcast" class="category-filter-link home w-inline-block"><div>Home</div><div class="category-filter-link-line"></div></a><a href="/podcast-categories/marriage" class="category-filter-link marriage w-inline-block"><div>Marriage</div><div class="category-filter-link-line marriage"></div></a><a href="/podcast-categories/parenting" class="category-filter-link parenting w-inline-block"><div>Parenting</div><div class="category-filter-link-line parenting"></div></a><a href="/podcast-categories/christian-life" class="category-filter-link christian-life w-inline-block"><div>Christian Life</div><div class="category-filter-link-line christian-life"></div></a><a href="/all-episodes" class="category-filter-link w-inline-block"><div>All</div><div class="category-filter-link-line"></div></a></div></div><div class="nav-categories-hover-area"></div></div></div><div id="w-node-_9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328bae37-bf2a5cc4" data-w-id="9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328bae37" class="nav-dd-link-wrapper"><div class="content-nav-link-wrap"><a href="/articles" class="nav-dropdown-link dd w-inline-block"><div class="nav-dd-link-toggle"><div class="flex-horizontal"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63c99b677a50bd4d80c3e411_Article%20Icon.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Articles Icon" class="dropdown-link-icon"/><div>Articles</div></div><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63582a7b074b986cb3f5cb0b_Vector%2016%20(1).svg" loading="lazy" alt="Arrow" class="nav-dd-link-arrow"/></div><p class="nav-dd-link-paragraph">Read about Marriage, Parenting and Christian Life</p></a><div class="nav-content-link-overlay"></div></div><div class="nav-categories-filter-wrapper articles"><div class="container dropdown-filters-container"><div class="filter-category-label articles">Filter by Category:</div><div class="categories-filter-wrapper articles"><a href="/articles" class="category-filter-link home w-inline-block"><div>Home</div><div class="category-filter-link-line"></div></a><a href="/article-categories/marriage" class="category-filter-link marriage w-inline-block"><div>Marriage</div><div class="category-filter-link-line marriage"></div></a><a href="/article-categories/parenting" class="category-filter-link parenting w-inline-block"><div>Parenting</div><div class="category-filter-link-line parenting"></div></a><a href="/article-categories/christian-life" class="category-filter-link christian-life w-inline-block"><div>Christian Life</div><div class="category-filter-link-line christian-life"></div></a><a href="/all-articles" class="category-filter-link w-inline-block"><div>All</div><div class="category-filter-link-line"></div></a></div></div><div class="nav-categories-hover-area"></div></div></div><div id="w-node-_9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328bae5d-bf2a5cc4" data-w-id="9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328bae5d" class="nav-dd-link-wrapper"><div class="content-nav-link-wrap"><div class="nav-content-link-overlay"></div><a href="/ask-emerson" class="nav-dropdown-link dd w-inline-block"><div class="nav-dd-link-toggle"><div class="flex-horizontal"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63c99c899402791cb7f28e49_Ask%20Emerson%20Icon.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Ask Emerson Icon" class="dropdown-link-icon"/><div>Ask Emerson</div></div><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63582a7b074b986cb3f5cb0b_Vector%2016%20(1).svg" loading="lazy" alt="Arrow" class="nav-dd-link-arrow"/></div><p class="nav-dd-link-paragraph">Short video questions and answers with Emerson</p></a></div><div class="nav-categories-filter-wrapper ask-emerson"><div class="nav-categories-hover-area"></div><div class="container dropdown-filters-container"><div class="filter-category-label ask-emerson">Filter by Category:</div><div class="categories-filter-wrapper ask-emerson"><a href="/ask-emerson" class="category-filter-link home w-inline-block"><div>Home</div><div class="category-filter-link-line"></div></a><a href="/ask-emerson-categories/marriage" class="category-filter-link marriage w-inline-block"><div>Marriage</div><div class="category-filter-link-line marriage"></div></a><a href="/ask-emerson-categories/parenting" class="category-filter-link parenting w-inline-block"><div>Parenting</div><div class="category-filter-link-line parenting"></div></a><a href="/ask-emerson-categories/christian-life" class="category-filter-link christian-life w-inline-block"><div>Christian Life</div><div class="category-filter-link-line christian-life"></div></a></div></div></div></div><a id="w-node-_9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328bae7f-bf2a5cc4" href="/collections" class="nav-dropdown-link w-inline-block"><div class="nav-dd-link-toggle"><div class="flex-horizontal"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63c99b677a50bd4d80c3e411_Article%20Icon.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Articles Icon" class="dropdown-link-icon"/><div>Collections</div></div></div><p class="nav-dd-link-paragraph">Curated content on a variety of topics</p></a></div><div class="nav-dropdown-bg"></div><div class="nav-hover-area"></div></nav></div><div data-hover="false" data-delay="0" class="nav-dropdown w-dropdown"><div class="nav-dropdown-toggle w-dropdown-toggle"><div>Store</div><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63582a7b074b986cb3f5cb0b_Vector%2016%20(1).svg" loading="lazy" alt="Arrow" class="nav-dropdown-arrow"/><div class="nav-link-line"></div></div><nav class="nav-dropdown-list w-dropdown-list"><div class="container grid nav-dropdown-container"><a id="w-node-_9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328bae91-bf2a5cc4" href="/store/all-products" class="nav-dropdown-link w-inline-block"><div class="nav-dd-link-toggle"><div class="flex-horizontal"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63c9329da98e96e098910ee1_Shopping%20Cart%20Icon.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Shopping Cart Icon" class="dropdown-link-icon"/><div>Store</div></div></div><p class="nav-dd-link-paragraph">Browse all Love &amp; Respect books, studies, and gifts</p></a><a id="w-node-f98b8e86-43ba-7c05-0188-39ec5b90bfe0-bf2a5cc4" href="/store/dvd-studies" class="nav-dropdown-link w-inline-block"><div class="nav-dd-link-toggle"><div class="flex-horizontal"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63c99b67c51c865b22979d0b_DVD%20Studies%20Icon.svg" loading="lazy" alt="DVD Studies Icon" class="dropdown-link-icon"/><div>DVD Studies</div></div></div><p class="nav-dd-link-paragraph">Couple and Small Group series for your home or church</p></a><a id="w-node-_9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328bae99-bf2a5cc4" href="/store/books" class="nav-dropdown-link w-inline-block"><div class="nav-dd-link-toggle"><div class="flex-horizontal"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63c99b677a50bd4d80c3e411_Article%20Icon.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Articles Icon" class="dropdown-link-icon"/><div>Books</div></div></div><p class="nav-dd-link-paragraph">Love &amp;
334 Respect and many more by Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.</p></a><a id="w-node-_9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baea1-bf2a5cc4" href="/store/gifts" class="nav-dropdown-link w-inline-block"><div class="nav-dd-link-toggle"><div class="flex-horizontal"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63c99b673a9951d4183e6ed5_Gifts%20Icon.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Gift Icon" class="dropdown-link-icon"/><div>Gifts</div></div></div><p class="nav-dd-link-paragraph">A few things you might enjoy or gift to someone else</p></a></div><div class="nav-dropdown-bg"></div><div class="nav-hover-area"></div></nav></div><a href="/courses" class="nav-link w-inline-block"><div>Courses</div><div class="nav-link-line"></div></a><a href="https://mentor.loveandrespect.com/" target="_blank" class="nav-link w-inline-block"><div>Become a Mentor</div><div class="nav-link-line"></div></a><div data-hover="false" data-delay="0" class="nav-dropdown w-dropdown"><div class="nav-dropdown-toggle w-dropdown-toggle"><div>More</div><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63582a7b074b986cb3f5cb0b_Vector%2016%20(1).svg" loading="lazy" alt="Arrow" class="nav-dropdown-arrow"/><div class="nav-link-line"></div></div><nav class="nav-dropdown-list w-dropdown-list"><div class="container grid nav-dropdown-container"><a id="w-node-_9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baebb-bf2a5cc4" href="/about-us" class="nav-dropdown-link w-inline-block"><div class="nav-dd-link-toggle"><div class="flex-horizontal"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/64219304ad91ce77f007bd86_Podcast%20Icon%20(1).svg" loading="lazy" alt="" class="dropdown-link-icon"/><div>About</div></div></div><p class="nav-dd-link-paragraph">Learn a little about Love &amp; Respect</p></a><a rel="noopener" id="w-node-_9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baec3-bf2a5cc4" href="/events" class="nav-dropdown-link w-inline-block"><div class="nav-dd-link-toggle"><div class="flex-horizontal"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/64219302a66eb184107014f7_Mentoring%20Icon.svg" loading="lazy" alt="" class="dropdown-link-icon"/><div>Events</div></div></div><p class="nav-dd-link-paragraph">Join or host a live Love &amp; Respect event.</p></a><a rel="noopener" id="w-node-_9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baecb-bf2a5cc4" href="https://give.loveandrespect.com/" target="_blank" class="nav-dropdown-link w-inline-block"><div class="nav-dd-link-toggle"><div class="flex-horizontal"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/6421931fa66eb121c5701738_Donate%20Icon.svg" loading="lazy" alt="" class="dropdown-link-icon"/><div>Give</div></div></div><p class="nav-dd-link-paragraph">Support us and impact others through your generous donation.</p></a><a id="w-node-_9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baed3-bf2a5cc4" href="/contact-us" class="nav-dropdown-link w-inline-block"><div class="nav-dd-link-toggle"><div class="flex-horizontal"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/642192febf8c41b444a2ef4d_Contact%20Us.svg" loading="lazy" alt="" class="dropdown-link-icon"/><div>Contact us</div></div></div><p class="nav-dd-link-paragraph">Reach out with any questions you have!</p></a></div><div class="nav-dropdown-bg"></div><div class="nav-hover-area"></div></nav></div></div><div class="nav-right-side"><div class="nav-search-form-wrap w-form"><form id="nav-search-form" name="email-form" data-name="Email Form" method="get" class="nav-search-form" data-wf-page-id="60343da2bb58a9674492acc2" data-wf-element-id="9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baedf"><div class="search-input-wrapper"><input class="search-input nav w-input" maxlength="256" name="field" data-name="Field" placeholder="Search" type="text" id="nav-search-field" required=""/><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63d804be2bce52ee02b4d295_Search%20Icon%20(2).svg" loading="lazy" alt="" class="search-loupe nav"/><a id="nav-search-button" href="/search" class="search-sort-by-text search-mobile">Search</a></div><a id="filter-button" href="#" class="hide w-inline-block"></a></form><div class="w-form-done"><div>Thank you! Your submission has been received!</div></div><div class="w-form-fail"><div>Oops! Something went wrong while submitting the form.</div></div></div><div class="nav-buttons-wrapper"><a data-ms-redirect="current-url" data-ms-action="login" data-ms-content="!members" id="w-node-_9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baeec-bf2a5cc4" href="/log-in" class="sign-in-button w-button">Sign In</a><a data-ms-redirect="current-url" data-ms-content="!members" data-ms-price:add="prc_yearly-membership-14-day-free-trial-d22t0q3i" id="w-node-_9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baeee-bf2a5cc4" href="/sign-up" class="button sign-up-button w-button">Free Trial</a></div><div data-hover="false" data-delay="0" data-ms-content="members" data-w-id="9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baef0" class="member-nav-dropdown w-dropdown"><div data-w-id="9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baef1" class="member-nav-dropdown-toggle w-dropdown-toggle"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/64ad353a6315d89f742907ae_6477894da2a19699c9eed744_white-profile-empty%20(1).svg" loading="lazy" data-ms-member="profile-image" alt="" id="member-profile-image" class="avatar-image"/><div class="nav-image-loader-wrapper"><div class="nav-loader-white-overlay"></div><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/64ad3a7b332ae9274bfd5e58_Ellipse%20596%201.svg" loading="lazy" alt="" class="nav-loader-circle"/></div></div><nav class="member-dropdown-list w-dropdown-list"><a id="my-library-link" data-ms-content="member-only" href="/member-dashboard#My-Library" class="member-dropdown-link w-inline-block"><div class="member-dropdown-link-icon w-embed"><svg width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg">
335<path d="M10.0026 10.625C7.36094 10.625 5.21094 8.47499 5.21094 5.83332C5.21094 3.19166 7.36094 1.04166 10.0026 1.04166C12.6443 1.04166 14.7943 3.19166 14.7943 5.83332C14.7943 8.47499 12.6443 10.625 10.0026 10.625ZM10.0026 2.29166C8.0526 2.29166 6.46094 3.88332 6.46094 5.83332C6.46094 7.78332 8.0526 9.37499 10.0026 9.37499C11.9526 9.37499 13.5443 7.78332 13.5443 5.83332C13.5443 3.88332 11.9526 2.29166 10.0026 2.29166Z" fill="CurrentColor"/>
336<path d="M17.1604 18.9583C16.8187 18.9583 16.5354 18.675 16.5354 18.3333C16.5354 15.4583 13.6021 13.125 10.0021 13.125C6.40208 13.125 3.46875 15.4583 3.46875 18.3333C3.46875 18.675 3.18542 18.9583 2.84375 18.9583C2.50208 18.9583 2.21875 18.675 2.21875 18.3333C2.21875 14.775 5.71041 11.875 10.0021 11.875C14.2937 11.875 17.7854 14.775 17.7854 18.3333C17.7854 18.675 17.5021 18.9583 17.1604 18.9583Z" fill="CurrentColor"/>
337</svg></div><div>My Library</div></a><a id="settings-link" data-ms-content="member-only" href="/member-dashboard#My-Settings" class="member-dropdown-link w-inline-block"><div class="member-dropdown-link-icon w-embed"><svg width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg">
338<path d="M10 13.125C8.275 13.125 6.875 11.725 6.875 10C6.875 8.275 8.275 6.875 10 6.875C11.725 6.875 13.125 8.275 13.125 10C13.125 11.725 11.725 13.125 10 13.125ZM10 8.125C8.96667 8.125 8.125 8.96667 8.125 10C8.125 11.0333 8.96667 11.875 10 11.875C11.0333 11.875 11.875 11.0333 11.875 10C11.875 8.96667 11.0333 8.125 10 8.125Z" fill="CurrentColor"/>
339<path d="M12.6724 18.4917C12.4974 18.4917 12.3224 18.4667 12.1474 18.425C11.6307 18.2833 11.1974 17.9583 10.9224 17.5L10.8224 17.3333C10.3307 16.4833 9.65573 16.4833 9.16406 17.3333L9.0724 17.4917C8.7974 17.9583 8.3
3396406 18.2917 7.8474 18.425C7.3224 18.5667 6.78073 18.4917 6.3224 18.2167L4.88906 17.3917C4.38073 17.1 4.01406 16.625 3.85573 16.05C3.70573 15.475 3.78073 14.8833 4.0724 14.375C4.31406 13.95 4.38073 13.5667 4.23906 13.325C4.0974 13.0833 3.73906 12.9417 3.2474 12.9417C2.03073 12.9417 1.03906 11.95 1.03906 10.7333V9.26667C1.03906 8.05 2.03073 7.05833 3.2474 7.05833C3.73906 7.05833 4.0974 6.91667 4.23906 6.675C4.38073 6.43333 4.3224 6.05 4.0724 5.625C3.78073 5.11667 3.70573 4.51667 3.85573 3.95C4.00573 3.375 4.3724 2.9 4.88906 2.60833L6.33073 1.78333C7.2724 1.225 8.51406 1.55 9.08073 2.50833L9.18073 2.675C9.6724 3.525 10.3474 3.525 10.8391 2.675L10.9307 2.51667C11.4974 1.55 12.7391 1.225 13.6891 1.79167L15.1224 2.61667C15.6307 2.90833 15.9974 3.38333 16.1557 3.95833C16.3057 4.53333 16.2307 5.125 15.9391 5.63333C15.6974 6.05833 15.6307 6.44167 15.7724 6.68333C15.9141 6.925 16.2724 7.06667 16.7641 7.06667C17.9807 7.06667 18.9724 8.05833 18.9724 9.275V10.7417C18.9724 11.9583 17.9807 12.95 16.7641 12.95C16.2724 12.95 15.9141 13.0917 15.7724 13.3333C15.6307 13.575 15.6891 13.9583 15.9391 14.3833C16.2307 14.8917 16.3141 15.4917 16.1557 16.0583C16.0057 16.6333 15.6391 17.1083 15.1224 17.4L13.6807 18.225C13.3641 18.4 13.0224 18.4917 12.6724 18.4917ZM9.9974 15.4083C10.7391 15.4083 11.4307 15.875 11.9057 16.7L11.9974 16.8583C12.0974 17.0333 12.2641 17.1583 12.4641 17.2083C12.6641 17.2583 12.8641 17.2333 13.0307 17.1333L14.4724 16.3C14.6891 16.175 14.8557 15.9667 14.9224 15.7167C14.9891 15.4667 14.9557 15.2083 14.8307 14.9917C14.3557 14.175 14.2974 13.3333 14.6641 12.6917C15.0307 12.05 15.7891 11.6833 16.7391 11.6833C17.2724 11.6833 17.6974 11.2583 17.6974 10.725V9.25833C17.6974 8.73333 17.2724 8.3 16.7391 8.3C15.7891 8.3 15.0307 7.93333 14.6641 7.29167C14.2974 6.65 14.3557 5.80833 14.8307 4.99167C14.9557 4.775 14.9891 4.51667 14.9224 4.26667C14.8557 4.01667 14.6974 3.81667 14.4807 3.68333L13.0391 2.85833C12.6807 2.64167 12.2057 2.76667 11.9891 3.13333L11.8974 3.29167C11.4224 4.11667 10.7307 4.58333 9.98906 4.58333C9.2474 4.58333 8.55573 4.11667 8.08073 3.29167L7.98906 3.125C7.78073 2.775 7.31406 2.65 6.95573 2.85833L5.51406 3.69167C5.2974 3.81667 5.13073 4.025 5.06406 4.275C4.9974 4.525 5.03073 4.78333 5.15573 5C5.63073 5.81667 5.68906 6.65833 5.3224 7.3C4.95573 7.94167 4.1974 8.30833 3.2474 8.30833C2.71406 8.30833 2.28906 8.73333 2.28906 9.26667V10.7333C2.28906 11.2583 2.71406 11.6917 3.2474 11.6917C4.1974 11.6917 4.95573 12.0583 5.3224 12.7C5.68906 13.3417 5.63073 14.1833 5.15573 15C5.03073 15.2167 4.9974 15.475 5.06406 15.725C5.13073 15.975 5.28906 16.175 5.50573 16.3083L6.9474 17.1333C7.1224 17.2417 7.33073 17.2667 7.5224 17.2167C7.7224 17.1667 7.88906 17.0333 7.9974 16.8583L8.08906 16.7C8.56406 15.8833 9.25573 15.4083 9.9974 15.4083Z" fill="CurrentColor"/>
340</svg></div><div>Settings</div></a><a data-ms-action="logout" data-ms-content="members" href="#" class="member-dropdown-link w-inline-block"><div class="member-dropdown-link-icon w-embed"><svg width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg">
341<path d="M12.6991 18.5583H12.5908C8.89078 18.5583 7.10745 17.1 6.79912 13.8333C6.76578 13.4917 7.01578 13.1833 7.36578 13.15C7.69912 13.1167 8.01578 13.375 8.04912 13.7167C8.29078 16.3333 9.52412 17.3083 12.5991 17.3083H12.7075C16.0991 17.3083 17.2991 16.1083 17.2991 12.7167V7.28333C17.2991 3.89167 16.0991 2.69167 12.7075 2.69167H12.5991C9.50745 2.69167 8.27412 3.68333 8.04912 6.35C8.00745 6.69167 7.71578 6.95 7.36578 6.91667C7.01578 6.89167 6.76578 6.58333 6.79078 6.24167C7.07412 2.925 8.86578 1.44167 12.5908 1.44167H12.6991C16.7908 1.44167 18.5408 3.19167 18.5408 7.28333V12.7167C18.5408 16.8083 16.7908 18.5583 12.6991 18.5583Z" fill="CurrentColor"/>
342<path d="M12.499 10.625H3.01563C2.67396 10.625 2.39062 10.3417 2.39062 10C2.39062 9.65833 2.67396 9.375 3.01563 9.375H12.499C12.8406 9.375 13.124 9.65833 13.124 10C13.124 10.3417 12.8406 10.625 12.499 10.625Z" fill="CurrentColor"/>
343<path d="M4.87552 13.4167C4.71719 13.4167 4.55885 13.3583 4.43385 13.2333L1.64219 10.4417C1.40052 10.2 1.40052 9.8 1.64219 9.55834L4.43385 6.76667C4.67552 6.525 5.07552 6.525 5.31719 6.76667C5.55885 7.00834 5.55885 7.40834 5.31719 7.65L2.96719 
34310L5.31719 12.35C5.55885 12.5917 5.55885 12.9917 5.31719 13.2333C5.20052 13.3583 5.03385 13.4167 4.87552 13.4167Z" fill="CurrentColor"/>
344</svg></div><div>Log Out</div></a><div class="member-dropdown-triangle"></div></nav></div></div></div></nav><div data-node-type="commerce-cart-wrapper" data-open-product="" data-wf-cart-type="modal" data-wf-cart-query="query Dynamo3 {
345  database {
346    id
347    commerceOrder {
348      comment
349      extraItems {
350        name
351        pluginId
352        pluginName
353        price {
354          decimalValue
355          string
356          unit
357          value
358        }
359      }
360      id
361      startedOn
362      statusFlags {
363        hasDownloads
364        hasSubscription
365        isFreeOrder
366        requiresShipping
367      }
368      subtotal {
369        decimalValue
370        string
371        unit
372        value
373      }
374      total {
375        decimalValue
376        string
377        unit
378        value
379      }
380      updatedOn
381      userItems {
382        count
383        id
384        price {
385          value
386          unit
387          decimalValue
388          string
389        }
390        product {
391          id
392          cmsLocaleId
393          draft
394          archived
395          f_ec_product_type_2dr10dr: productType {
396            id
397            name
398          }
399          f_name_: name
400          f_sku_properties_3dr: skuProperties {
401            id
402            name
403            enum {
404              id
405              name
406              slug
407            }
408          }
409        }
410        rowTotal {
411          decimalValue
412          string
413          unit
414          value
415        }
416        sku {
417          cmsLocaleId
418          draft
419          archived
420          f_compare_at_price_7dr10dr: compareAtPrice {
421            value
422            unit
423            decimalValue
424            string
425          }
426          f_main_image_4dr: mainImage {
427            url
428            file {
429              size
430              origFileName
431              createdOn
432              updatedOn
433              mimeType
434              width
435              height
436              variants {
437                origFileName
438                quality
439                height
440                width
441                s3Url
442                error
443                size
444              }
445            }
446            alt
447          }
448          f_sku_values_3dr: skuValues {
449            property {
450              id
451            }
452            value {
453              id
454            }
455          }
456          id
457        }
458        subscriptionFrequency
459        subscriptionInterval
460        subscriptionTrial
461      }
462      userItemsCount
463    }
464  }
465  site {
466    commerce {
467      id
468      businessAddress {
469        country
470      }
471      defaultCountry
472      defaultCurrency
473      quickCheckoutEnabled
474    }
475  }
476}" data-wf-page-link-href-prefix="" class="w-commerce-commercecartwrapper cart"><a href="#" data-node-type="commerce-cart-open-link" aria-haspopup="dialog" aria-label="Open cart" role="button" class="w-commerce-commercecartopenlink cart-button w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63c9329da98e96e098910ee1_Shopping%20Cart%20Icon.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Shopping Cart Icon" class="shopping-cart-icon"/><div data-wf-bindings="%5B%7B%22innerHTML%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22Number%22%2C%22filter%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22numberPrecision%22%2C%22params%22%3A%5B%220%22%2C%22numberPrecision%22%5D%7D%2C%22dataPath%22%3A%22database.commerceOrder.userItemsCount%22%7D%7D%5D" class="w-commerce-commercecartopenlinkcount cart-quantity">0</div></a><div data-node-type="commerce-cart-container-wrapper" style="display:none" class="w-commerce-commercecartcontainerwrapper w-commerce-commercecartcontainerwrapper--cartType-modal cart-wrapper"><div role="dialog" data-node-type="commerce-cart-container" class="w-commerce-commercecartcontainer cart-container"><div class="w-commerce-commercecartheader cart-header"><div class="h4-style no-margin">Your Shopping Cart</div><a href="#" data-node-type="commerce-cart-close-link" role="button" aria-label="Close cart" class="w-commerce-commercecartcloselink close-button w-inline-block"><svg width="16px" height="16px" viewBox="0 0 16 16"><g stroke="none" stroke-width="1" fill="none" fill-rule="evenodd"><g fill-rule="nonzero" fill="#333333"><polygon points="6.23223305 8 0.616116524 13.6161165 2.38388348 15.3838835 8 9.76776695 13.6161165 15.3838835 15.3838835 13.6161165 9.76776695 8 15.3838835 2.38388348 13.6161165 0.616116524 8 6.23223305 2.38388348 0.616116524 0.616116524 2.38388348 6.23223305 8"></polygon></g></g></svg></a></div><div class="w-commerce-commercecartformwrapper"><form data-node-type="commerce-cart-form" style="display:none" class="w-commerce-commercecartform">
476<script type="text/x-wf-template" id="wf-template-9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baf0e">%3Cdiv%20class%3D%22w-commerce-commercecartitem%20cart_item%22%3E%3Cimg%20data-wf-bindings%3D%22%255B%257B%2522src%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522ImageRef%2522%252C%2522filter%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522identity%2522%252C%2522params%2522%253A%255B%255D%257D%252C%2522dataPath%2522%253A%2522database.commerceOrder.userItems%255B%255D.sku.f_main_image_4dr%2522%257D%257D%255D%22%20src%3D%22%22%20alt%3D%22%22%20class%3D%22w-commerce-commercecartitemimage%20cart-button-image%20w-dyn-bind-empty%22%2F%3E%3Cdiv%20class%3D%22w-commerce-commercecartiteminfo%22%3E%3Cdiv%20data-wf-bindings%3D%22%255B%257B%2522innerHTML%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522PlainText%2522%252C%2522filter%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522identity%2522%252C%2522params%2522%253A%255B%255D%257D%252C%2522dataPath%2522%253A%2522database.commerceOrder.userItems%255B%255D.product.f_name_%2522%257D%257D%255D%22%20class%3D%22w-commerce-commercecartproductname%20cart-item-heading%20w-dyn-bind-empty%22%3E%3C%2Fdiv%3E%3Cdiv%20class%3D%22cart-price-wrap%22%3E%3Cdiv%20data-wf-bindings%3D%22%255B%257B%2522innerHTML%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522CommercePrice%2522%252C%2522filter%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522price%2522%252C%2522params%2522%253A%255B%255D%257D%252C%2522dataPath%2522%253A%2522database.commerceOrder.userItems%255B%255D.price%2522%257D%257D%255D%22%3E%24%C2%A00.00%C2%A0%3C%2Fdiv%3E%3Cdiv%20data-wf-bindings%3D%22%255B%257B%2522innerHTML%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522CommercePrice%2522%252C%2522filter%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522price%2522%252C%2522params%2522%253A%255B%255D%257D%252C%2522dataPath%2522%253A%2522database.commerceOrder.userItems%255B%255D.sku.f_compare_at_price_7dr10dr%2522%257D%257D%255D%22%20class%3D%22crossed-text%20text-gray-200%20w-dyn-bind-empty%22%3E%3C%2Fdiv%3E%3C%2Fdiv%3E%3Cscript%20type%3D%22text%2Fx-wf-template%22%20id%3D%22wf-template-9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baf16%22%3E%253Cli%253E%253Cspan%2520data-wf-bindings%253D%2522%25255B%25257B%252522innerHTML%252522%25253A%25257B%252522type%252522%25253A%252522PlainText%252522%25252C%252522filter%252522%25253A%25257B%252522type%252522%25253A%252522identity%252522%25252C%252522params%252522%25253A%25255B%25255D%25257D%25252C%252522dataPath%252522%25253A%252522database.commerceOrder.userItems%25255B%25255D.product.f_sku_properties_3dr%25255B%25255D.name%252522%25257D%25257D%25255D%2522%2520class%253D%2522w-dyn-bind-empty%2522%253E%253C%252Fspan%253E%253Cspan%253E%253A%2520%253C%252Fspan%253E%253Cspan%2520data-wf-bindings%253D%2522%25255B%25257B%252522innerHTML%252522%25253A%25257B%252522type%252522%25253A%252522CommercePropValues%252522%25252C%252522filter%252522%25253A%25257B%252522type%252522%25253A%252522identity%252522%25252C%252522params%252522%25253A%25255B%25255D%25257D%25252C%252522dataPath%252522%25253A%252522database.commerceOrder.userItems%25255B%25255D.product.f_sku_properties_3dr%25255B%25255D%252522%25257D%25257D%25255D%2522%2520class%253D%2522w-dyn-bind-empty%2522%253E%253C%252Fspan%253E%253C%252Fli%253E%3C%2Fscript%3E%3Cul%20data-wf-bindings%3D%22%255B%257B%2522optionSets%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522CommercePropTable%2522%252C%2522filter%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522identity%2522%252C%2522params%2522%253A%255B%255D%257D%252C%2522dataPath%2522%253A%2522database.commerceOrder.userItems%255B%255D.product.f_sku_properties_3dr%5B%5D%2522%257D%257D%252C%257B%2522optionValues%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522CommercePropValues%2522%252C%2522filter%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522identity%2522%252C%2522params%2522%253A%255B%255D%257D%252C%2522dataPath%2522%253A%2522database.commerceOrder.userItems%255B%255D.sku.f_sku_values_3dr%2522%257D%257D%255D%22%20class%3D%22w-commerce-commercecartoptionlist%22%20data-wf-collection%3D%22database.commerceOrder.userItems%255B%255D.product.f_sku_properties_3dr%22%20data-wf-template-id%3D%22wf-template-9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baf16%22%3E%3Cli%3E%3Cspan%20data-wf-bindings%3D%22%255B%257B%2522innerHTML%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522PlainText%2522%252C%2522filter%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522identity%2522%252C%2522params%2522%253A%255B%255D%257D%252C%2522dataPath%2522%253A%2522database.commerceOrder.userItems%255B%255D.product.f_sku_properties_3dr%255B%255D.name%2522%257D%257D%255D%22%20class%3D%22w-dyn-bind-empty%22%3E%3C%2Fspan%3E%3Cspan%3E%3A%20%3C%2Fspan%3E%3Cspan%20data-wf-bindings%3D%22%255B%257B%2522innerHTML%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522CommercePropValues%2522%252C%2522filter%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522identity%2522%252C%2522params%2522%253A%255B%255D%257D%252C%2522dataPath%2522%253A%2522database.commerceOrder.userItems%255B%255D.product.f_sku_properties_3dr%255B%255D%2522%257D%257D%255D%22%20class%3D%22w-dyn-bind-empty%22%3E%3C%2Fspan%3E%3C%2Fli%3E%3C%2Ful%3E%3Ca%20href%3D%22%23%22%20role%3D%22button%22%20aria-label%3D%22Remove%20item%20from%20cart%22%20data-wf-bindings%3D%22%255B%257B%2522data-commerce-sku-id%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522ItemRef%2522%252C%2522filter%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522identity%2522%252C%2522params%2522%253A%255B%255D%257D%252C%2522dataPath%2522%253A%2522database.commerceOrder.userItems%255B%255D.sku.id%2522%257D%257D%255D%22%20class%3D%22w-inline-block%22%20data-wf-cart-action%3D%22remove-item%22%20data-commerce-sku-id%3D%22%22%3E%3Cdiv%20class%3D%22remove-from-cart-text%22%3ERemove%3C%2Fdiv%3E%3C%2Fa%3E%3C%2Fdiv%3E%3Cdiv%20class%3D%22quantity-wrapper%20input-number-group%20cart%22%3E%3Cinput%20aria-label%3D%22Update%20quantity%22%20data-wf-bindings%3D%22%255B%257B%2522value%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522Number%2522%252C%2522filter%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522numberPrecision%2522%252C%2522params%2522%253A%255B%25220%2522%252C%2522numberPrecision%2522%255D%257D%252C%2522dataPath%2522%253A%2522database.commerceOrder.userItems%255B%255D.count%2522%257D%257D%252C%257B%2522data-commerce-sku-id%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522ItemRef%2522%252C%2522filter%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522identity%2522%252C%2522params%2522%253A%255B%255D%257D%252C%2522dataPath%2522%253A%2522database.commerceOrder.userItems%255B%255D.sku.id%2522%257D%257D%255D%22%20data-wf-conditions%3D%22%257B%2522condition%2522%253A%257B%2522fields%2522%253A%257B%2522product%253Aec-product-type%2522%253A%257B%2522ne%2522%253A%2522e348fd487d0102946c9179d2a94bb613%2522%252C%2522type%2522%253A%2522Option%2522%257D%257D%257D%252C%2522dataPath%2522%253A%2522database.commerceOrder.userItems%255B%255D%2522%257D%22%20class%3D%22w-commerce-commercecartquantity%20quantity%20cart_qty_input%22%20required%3D%22%22%20pattern%3D%22%5E%
4765B0-9%5D%2B%24%22%20inputMode%3D%22numeric%22%20type%3D%22number%22%20name%3D%22quantity%22%20autoComplete%3D%22off%22%20data-wf-cart-action%3D%22update-item-quantity%22%20data-commerce-sku-id%3D%22%22%20value%3D%221%22%2F%3E%3Cdiv%20class%3D%22qty_min%22%3E-%3C%2Fdiv%3E%3Cdiv%20class%3D%22qty_plus%22%3E%2B%3C%2Fdiv%3E%3C%2Fdiv%3E%3C%2Fdiv%3E</script>
476<div id="cart_list" class="w-commerce-commercecartlist cart-list" data-wf-collection="database.commerceOrder.userItems" data-wf-template-id="wf-template-9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baf0e"><div class="w-commerce-commercecartitem cart_item"><img data-wf-bindings="%5B%7B%22src%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22ImageRef%22%2C%22filter%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22identity%22%2C%22params%22%3A%5B%5D%7D%2C%22dataPath%22%3A%22database.commerceOrder.userItems%5B%5D.sku.f_main_image_4dr%22%7D%7D%5D" src="" alt="" class="w-commerce-commercecartitemimage cart-button-image w-dyn-bind-empty"/><div class="w-commerce-commercecartiteminfo"><div data-wf-bindings="%5B%7B%22innerHTML%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22PlainText%22%2C%22filter%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22identity%22%2C%22params%22%3A%5B%5D%7D%2C%22dataPath%22%3A%22database.commerceOrder.userItems%5B%5D.product.f_name_%22%7D%7D%5D" class="w-commerce-commercecartproductname cart-item-heading w-dyn-bind-empty"></div><div class="cart-price-wrap"><div data-wf-bindings="%5B%7B%22innerHTML%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22CommercePrice%22%2C%22filter%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22price%22%2C%22params%22%3A%5B%5D%7D%2C%22dataPath%22%3A%22database.commerceOrder.userItems%5B%5D.price%22%7D%7D%5D">$ 0.00 </div><div data-wf-bindings="%5B%7B%22innerHTML%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22CommercePrice%22%2C%22filter%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22price%22%2C%22params%22%3A%5B%5D%7D%2C%22dataPath%22%3A%22database.commerceOrder.userItems%5B%5D.sku.f_compare_at_price_7dr10dr%22%7D%7D%5D" class="crossed-text text-gray-200 w-dyn-bind-empty"></div></div>
476<script type="text/x-wf-template" id="wf-template-9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baf16">%3Cli%3E%3Cspan%20data-wf-bindings%3D%22%255B%257B%2522innerHTML%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522PlainText%2522%252C%2522filter%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522identity%2522%252C%2522params%2522%253A%255B%255D%257D%252C%2522dataPath%2522%253A%2522database.commerceOrder.userItems%255B%255D.product.f_sku_properties_3dr%255B%255D.name%2522%257D%257D%255D%22%20class%3D%22w-dyn-bind-empty%22%3E%3C%2Fspan%3E%3Cspan%3E%3A%20%3C%2Fspan%3E%3Cspan%20data-wf-bindings%3D%22%255B%257B%2522innerHTML%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522CommercePropValues%2522%252C%2522filter%2522%253A%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522identity%2522%252C%2522params%2522%253A%255B%255D%257D%252C%2522dataPath%2522%253A%2522database.commerceOrder.userItems%255B%255D.product.f_sku_properties_3dr%255B%255D%2522%257D%257D%255D%22%20class%3D%22w-dyn-bind-empty%22%3E%3C%2Fspan%3E%3C%2Fli%3E</script>
476<ul data-wf-bindings="%5B%7B%22optionSets%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22CommercePropTable%22%2C%22filter%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22identity%22%2C%22params%22%3A%5B%5D%7D%2C%22dataPath%22%3A%22database.commerceOrder.userItems%5B%5D.product.f_sku_properties_3dr[]%22%7D%7D%2C%7B%22optionValues%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22CommercePropValues%22%2C%22filter%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22identity%22%2C%22params%22%3A%5B%5D%7D%2C%22dataPath%22%3A%22database.commerceOrder.userItems%5B%5D.sku.f_sku_values_3dr%22%7D%7D%5D" class="w-commerce-commercecartoptionlist" data-wf-collection="database.commerceOrder.userItems%5B%5D.product.f_sku_properties_3dr" data-wf-template-id="wf-template-9dfce57a-3a66-6f44-cdb7-17bd328baf16"><li><span data-wf-bindings="%5B%7B%22innerHTML%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22PlainText%22%2C%22filter%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22identity%22%2C%22params%22%3A%5B%5D%7D%2C%22dataPath%22%3A%22database.commerceOrder.userItems%5B%5D.product.f_sku_properties_3dr%5B%5D.name%22%7D%7D%5D" class="w-dyn-bind-empty"></span><span>: </span><span data-wf-bindings="%5B%7B%22innerHTML%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22CommercePropValues%22%2C%22filter%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22identity%22%2C%22params%22%3A%5B%5D%7D%2C%22dataPath%22%3A%22database.commerceOrder.userItems%5B%5D.product.f_sku_properties_3dr%5B%5D%22%7D%7D%5D" class="w-dyn-bind-empty"></span></li></ul><a href="#" role="button" aria-label="Remove item from cart" data-wf-bindings="%5B%7B%22data-commerce-sku-id%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22ItemRef%22%2C%22filter%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22identity%22%2C%22params%22%3A%5B%5D%7D%2C%22dataPath%22%3A%22database.commerceOrder.userItems%5B%5D.sku.id%22%7D%7D%5D" class="w-inline-block" data-wf-cart-action="remove-item" data-commerce-sku-id=""><div class="remove-from-cart-text">Remove</div></a></div><div class="quantity-wrapper input-number-group cart"><input aria-label="Update quantity" data-wf-bindings="%5B%7B%22value%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22Number%22%2C%22filter%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22numberPrecision%22%2C%22params%22%3A%5B%220%22%2C%22numberPrecision%22%5D%7D%2C%22dataPath%22%3A%22database.commerceOrder.userItems%5B%5D.count%22%7D%7D%2C%7B%22data-commerce-sku-id%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22ItemRef%22%2C%22filter%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22identity%22%2C%22params%22%3A%5B%5D%7D%2C%22dataPath%22%3A%22database.commerceOrder.userItems%5B%5D.sku.id%22%7D%7D%5D" data-wf-conditions="%7B%22condition%22%3A%7B%22fields%22%3A%7B%22product%3Aec-product-type%22%3A%7B%22ne%22%3A%22e348fd487d0102946c9179d2a94bb613%22%2C%22type%22%3A%22Option%22%7D%7D%7D%2C%22dataPath%22%3A%22database.commerceOrder.userItems%5B%5D%22%7D" class="w-commerce-commercecartquantity quantity cart_qty_input" required="" pattern="^[0-9]+$" inputMode="numeric" type="number" name="quantity" autoComplete="off" data-wf-cart-action="update-item-quantity" data-commerce-sku-id="" value="1"/><div class="qty_min">-</div><div class="qty_plus">+</div></div></div></div><div class="w-commerce-commercecartfooter cart-footer"><div aria-atomic="true" aria-live="polite" class="w-commerce-commercecartlineitem margin-bot-s"><div class="font-weight-500">Subtotal</div><div data-wf-bindings="%5B%7B%22innerHTML%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22CommercePrice%22%2C%22filter%22%3A%7B%22type%22%3A%22price%22%2C%22params%22%3A%5B%5D%7D%2C%22dataPath%22%3A%22database.commerceOrder.subtotal%22%7D%7D%5D" class="w-commerce-commercecartordervalue text-normal-weight"></div></div><div><div data-node-type="commerce-cart-quick-checkout-actions" style="display:none"><a role="button" tabindex="0" aria-label="Apple Pay" aria-haspopup="dialog" data-node-type="commerce-cart-apple-pay-button" style="background-image:-webkit-named-image(apple-pay-logo-white);background-size:100% 50%;background-position:50% 50%;background-repeat:no-repeat" class="w-commerce-commercecartapplepaybutton" tabindex="0"><div></div></a><a role="button" tabindex="0" aria-haspopup="dialog" data-node-type="commerce-cart-quick-checkout-button" style="display:none" class="w-commerce-commercecartquickcheckoutbutton"><svg class="w-commerce-commercequickcheckoutgoogleicon" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" width="16" height="16" viewB
476ox="0 0 16 16"><defs><polygon id="google-mark-a" points="0 .329 3.494 .329 3.494 7.649 0 7.649"></polygon><polygon id="google-mark-c" points=".894 0 13.169 0 13.169 6.443 .894 6.443"></polygon></defs><g fill="none" fill-rule="evenodd"><path fill="#4285F4" d="M10.5967,12.0469 L10.5967,14.0649 L13.1167,14.0649 C14.6047,12.6759 15.4577,10.6209 15.4577,8.1779 C15.4577,7.6339 15.4137,7.0889 15.3257,6.5559 L7.8887,6.5559 L7.8887,9.6329 L12.1507,9.6329 C11.9767,10.6119 11.4147,11.4899 10.5967,12.0469"></path><path fill="#34A853" d="M7.8887,16 C10.0137,16 11.8107,15.289 13.1147,14.067 C13.1147,14.066 13.1157,14.065 13.1167,14.064 L10.5967,12.047 C10.5877,12.053 10.5807,12.061 10.5727,12.067 C9.8607,12.556 8.9507,12.833 7.8887,12.833 C5.8577,12.833 4.1387,11.457 3.4937,9.605 L0.8747,9.605 L0.8747,11.648 C2.2197,14.319 4.9287,16 7.8887,16"></path><g transform="translate(0 4)"><mask id="google-mark-b" fill="#fff"><use xlink:href="#google-mark-a"></use></mask><path fill="#FBBC04" d="M3.4639,5.5337 C3.1369,4.5477 3.1359,3.4727 3.4609,2.4757 L3.4639,2.4777 C3.4679,2.4657 3.4749,2.4547 3.4789,2.4427 L3.4939,0.3287 L0.8939,0.3287 C0.8799,0.3577 0.8599,0.3827 0.8459,0.4117 C-0.2821,2.6667 -0.2821,5.3337 0.8459,7.5887 L0.8459,7.5997 C0.8549,7.6167 0.8659,7.6317 0.8749,7.6487 L3.4939,5.6057 C3.4849,5.5807 3.4729,5.5587 3.4639,5.5337" mask="url(#google-mark-b)"></path></g><mask id="google-mark-d" fill="#fff"><use xlink:href="#google-mark-c"></use></mask><path fill="#EA4335" d="M0.894,4.3291 L3.478,6.4431 C4.113,4.5611 5.843,3.1671 7.889,3.1671 C9.018,3.1451 10.102,3.5781 10.912,4.3671 L13.169,2.0781 C11.733,0.7231 9.85,-0.0219 7.889,0.0001 C4.941,0.0001 2.245,1.6791 0.894,4.3291" mask="url(#google-mark-d)"></path></g></svg><svg class="w-commerce-commercequickcheckoutmicrosofticon" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="16" height="16" viewBox="0 0 16 16"><g fill="none" fill-rule="evenodd"><polygon fill="#F05022" points="7 7 1 7 1 1 7 1"></polygon><polygon fill="#7DB902" points="15 7 9 7 9 1 15 1"></polygon><polygon fill="#00A4EE" points="7 15 1 15 1 9 7 9"></polygon><polygon fill="#FFB700" points="15 15 9 15 9 9 15 9"></polygon></g></svg><div>Pay with browser.</div></a></div><a href="/checkout" value="Continue to Checkout" data-node-type="cart-checkout-button" class="w-commerce-commercecartcheckoutbutton button" data-loading-text="Hang Tight..." data-publishable-key="pk_live_51Ir0zFFLAlHtUFVOaPmgBOkAUhd4fPL5ZgqvE7s4AG6lw2LSyFK2ctRVl1zomxOLr5lD8Csowz7qxEAxXiywjjsM008egeYo36">Continue to Checkout</a></div></div></form><div class="w-commerce-commercecartemptystate"><div aria-live="polite" aria-label="This cart is empty">No items found.</div></div><div aria-live="assertive" style="display:none" data-node-type="commerce-cart-error" class="w-commerce-commercecarterrorstate cart-error-state"><div class="w-cart-error-msg" data-w-cart-quantity-error="Product is not available in this quantity." data-w-cart-general-error="Something went wrong when adding this item to the cart." data-w-cart-checkout-error="Checkout is disabled on this site." data-w-cart-cart_order_min-error="The order minimum was not met. Add more items to your cart to continue." data-w-cart-subscription_error-error="Before you purchase, please use your email invite to verify your address so we can send order updates.">Product is not available in this quantity.</div></div></div></div></div></div><div scroll="both" class="nav-menu-button w-nav-button"><div class="nav-menu-button-wrap"><div class="nav-lines top"></div><div class="nav-lines mid"></div><div class="nav-lines bot"></div></div></div></div><div class="hidden-js w-embed w-script">
476<script>
477  document.addEventListener("DOMContentLoaded", function() {
478    if ($(window).width() >= 1200) {
479      $(".nav-dropdown-toggle.w-dropdown-toggle").mouseenter(function() {
480        $(this).trigger('mouseup');
481      });
482
483      $(".nav-dropdown-toggle.w-dropdown-toggle").parent().mouseleave(function() {
484        $(this).find('.nav-dropdown-toggle.w-dropdown-toggle').trigger('w-close');
485      });
486
487      $(".nav-dropdown-toggle.w-dropdown-toggle").parent().mouseleave(function() {
488        $(this).find('.nav-dropdown-toggle.w-dropdown-toggle').trigger('w-close');
489      });
490    }
491  });
492</script>
492</div><div class="hide-member-code w-embed w-script">
492<script>/*
493window.addEventListener("load", (event) => {
494  var myLibrary = document.querySelector("#my-library-link")
495var settings = document.querySelector("#settings-link")
496$memberstackDom.getAppAndMember().then((member) => {
497try {
498    if(member.data){
499     const url = member.data.member.id
500    myLibrary.setAttribute("href", `/members/${url}#My-Library`)
501    settings.setAttribute("href", `/members/${url}#My-Settings`)
502    }
503 }
504  catch(err) {
505    console.log("Not a memeber")
506  }
507})
508});
509*/
510</script>
510</div></div><div id="gated-overlay" data-ms-content="!all-access-membership" style="opacity:0" class="gated-content-overlay"><div class="gated-content-offer"><div class="container flex-center"><div class="h3-style gated-overlay-heading">Become a member and gain unlimited access to content, courses, and webinars.</div></div><div class="container courses-offer-container"><div id="w-node-f0d9e49a-09cf-a759-4f0c-184c2ff6b5f1-2ff6b5f0" class="course-offer-card membership"><div class="h5-style text-gray-200 margin-bot-4">The Love &amp; Respect</div><div class="heading-holder margin-bot-xs full-width"><div class="horizontal-divider"></div><div class="heading-wrap transparent"><h2 class="h3-style no-margin">Membership</h2></div><div class="horizontal-divider"></div></div><div class="membership-price-wrapper"><div class="h4-style old-member-price no-margin">$249</div><div class="h3-style no-margin">$199/y</div></div><p class="max-width-300 text-small margin-bot-s">Unlimited Access To All Our Content</p><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/66ba320c6ce76147664a7d0f_Website%20Pricing%20Area%20Image%20with%20reflection.avif" loading="lazy" sizes="100vw" srcset="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/66ba320c6ce76147664a7d0f_Website%20Pricing%20Area%20Image%20with%20reflection-p-500.avif 500w, https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/66ba320c6ce76147664a7d0f_Website%20Pricing%20Area%20Image%20with%20reflection.avif 986w" alt="" class="membership-offer-card-image"/></div><div id="w-node-f0d9e49a-09cf-a759-4f0c-184c2ff6b602-2ff6b5f0" class="course-offer-card membership-component"><div class="column flex-center full-width"><div class="column single-course-column"><h2 class="h5-style margin-bot-s">Inside The Love &amp; Respect Membership</h2><div class="horizontal-divider bg-gray-100 margin-bot-s"></div><ul role="list" class="course-offer-list"><li class="course-offer-list-item"></li><li class="course-offer-list-item">L&amp;R Conference 10 Week Study Included ($149 value)</li><li class="course-offer-list-item">14 Online Courses!</li><li class="course-offer-list-item">Access over 930+ Articles</li><li class="course-offer-list-item">Weekly Podcast - 270+ Episodes</li><li class="course-offer-list-item">Ask Emerson - 180+ Videos</li><li class="course-offer-list-item">Collections - 18 Curated Topics</li><li class="course-offer-list-item">Devotional - 52 Videos, Prayer, To-Do</li><li class="course-offer-list-item">Webinars Throughout The Year</li></ul><div class="course-offer-list-item and-more"><div>and more to come...</div></div></div><div class="full-width flex-center"><div><a id="w-node-f0d9e49a-09cf-a759-4f0c-184c2ff6b61d-2ff6b5f0" href="#" class="button-white hide-for-now w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63579a6f6e27cfe861136d7c_Vector%2097.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Play Arrow" class="play-button-arrow"/><div>Watch Trailer</div></a><a data-ms-redirect="current-url" data-ms-price:add="prc_yearly-membership-14-day-free-trial-d22t0q3i" id="w-node-f0d9e49a-09cf-a759-4f0c-184c2ff6b621-2ff6b5f0" href="/sign-up" class="button margin-bot-xs w-button">Free Trial</a></div><div class="already-a-member-wrap no-margin"><div class="utility-page-paragraph margin-right-xxs no-margin">Already a Member?</div><a data-ms-redirect="current-url" href="/log-in" class="sign-up-link">Log In</a></div></div></div></div></div></div><a href="/" class="gated-overlay-x w-inline-block"><div class="hide">Return to the homepage</div></a></div><div class="main-wrapper universal-post"><div data-ms-content="all-access-membership" class="up-content-wrapper"><div class="section universal-post-hero-section"><div class="container max-width-1100"><div style="opacity:0;-webkit-transform:translate3d(-7.8125rem, null, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-moz-transform:translate3d(-7.8125rem, null, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-ms-transform:translate3d(-7.8125rem, null, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);transform:translate3d(-7.8125rem, null, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0)" class="category-page-name-wrapper universal-post"><a href="/articles" class="category-page-link">Articles</a><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/630903e72f46c5b0640ea154_62ed5545060d7833be7eeed1_Vector%2012.svg" loading="lazy" alt="" class="page-category-arrow up-page"/><a href="/article-categories/christian-life" class="category-page-link w-condition-invisible">Christian Life</a><a href="/article-categories/marriage" class="category-page-link">Marriage</a><a href="/article-categories/parenting" class="category-page-link w-condition-invisible">Parenting</a><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/630903e72f46c5b0640ea154_62ed5545060d7833be7eeed1_Vector%2012.svg" loading="lazy" alt="" class="page-category-arrow up-page"/><div>Post</div></div><div style="opacity:0;-webkit-transform:translate3d(0, 7.8125rem, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-moz-transform:translate3d(0, 7.8125rem, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-ms-transform:translate3d(0, 7.8125rem, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);transform:translate3d(0, 7.8125rem, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0)" class="universal-post-hero-image-wrapper"><img alt="Does Your Spouse Have Your Permission? From Steve and Barbara Telzerow" loading="eager" style="-webkit-transform:translate3d(0, 0, 0) scale3d(1.2, 1.2, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-moz-transform:translate3d(0, 0, 0) scale3d(1.2, 1.2, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-ms-transform:translate3d(0, 0, 0) scale3d(1.2, 1.2, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);transform:translate3d(0, 0, 0) scale3d(1.2, 1.2, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0)" src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb26768776cde88fe33e/6ab311b4b43ef771290c500f_Does%20Your%20Spouse%20Have%20Your%20Permission%20-%20Steve%2
5100and%20Barbara%20Telzerow.jpg" id="card-image" sizes="100vw" srcset="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb26768776cde88fe33e/6ab311b4b43ef771290c500f_Does%20Your%20Spouse%20Have%20Your%20Permission%20-%20Steve%20and%20Barbara%20Telzerow-p-500.jpg 500w, https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb26768776cde88fe33e/6ab311b4b43ef771290c500f_Does%20Your%20Spouse%20Have%20Your%20Permission%20-%20Steve%20and%20Barbara%20Telzerow-p-800.jpg 800w, https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb26768776cde88fe33e/6ab311b4b43ef771290c500f_Does%20Your%20Spouse%20Have%20Your%20Permission%20-%20Steve%20and%20Barbara%20Telzerow-p-1080.jpg 1080w, https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb26768776cde88fe33e/6ab311b4b43ef771290c500f_Does%20Your%20Spouse%20Have%20Your%20Permission%20-%20Steve%20and%20Barbara%20Telzerow.jpg 1280w" class="universal-post-hero-image"/><a href="#" data-w-id="51357f85-ad72-a2fc-097f-16c29f10a18a" class="up-hero-video-wrapper w-inline-block w-dyn-bind-empty w-lightbox"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/638b1ee2c42934e1c87a9ef7_Play%20Button.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Play Button" class="video-play-button"/>
510<script type="application/json" class="w-json">{
511  "items": [],
512  "group": ""
513}</script>
513</a></div></div></div><div class="section universal-post-subhero-section"><div class="container universal-post-content-container"><div style="opacity:0;-webkit-transform:translate3d(0, 7.8125rem, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-moz-transform:translate3d(0, 7.8125rem, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-ms-transform:translate3d(0, 7.8125rem, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);transform:translate3d(0, 7.8125rem, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0)" class="universal-post-content-wrapper"><div class="column universal-post-hero-column"><div class="post-page-episode-info-wrap"><div id="card-category" style="color:hsla(0, 0.00%, 100.00%, 1.00);background-color:hsla(201.55339805825244, 96.26%, 41.96%, 1.00)" class="category-tag static no-margin w-node-b1f603bf-e03e-2126-7409-945ba2af67ac-4492acc2">Marriage</div><div id="w-node-cb2d20d8-f722-80cd-2414-f21adee7711a-4492acc2" class="episode-info-wrapper post"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/630903e57b1601ec482e3c00_62ebb42548dda87c21df1a0f_clock.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Image duration icon" class="episode-info-icon"/><div id="time-to-read" class="margin-right-4">8</div><div>min</div></div><div id="hide" class="mark-as-fav-error-message w-form"><form id="wf-form-Favorite-Articles" name="wf-form-Favorite-Articles-2" data-name="Favorite Articles" method="get" class="mark-as-fav-form" data-wf-page-id="60343da2bb58a9674492acc2" data-wf-element-id="16dee193-757e-51e2-341e-b6501c8c49f0"><input class="hide w-input" maxlength="256" name="Article-Name" data-name="Article Name" placeholder="" type="text" id="Article-Name"/><input class="hide w-input" maxlength="256" name="article-id" data-name="article-id" placeholder="" type="text" id="article-id"/><input class="hide w-input" maxlength="256" name="Webflow-Member-ID" data-name="Webflow Member ID" placeholder="" type="text" id="Webflow-Member-ID"/><div id="favButton" class="mark-as-fav-button"><div class="mark-as-fav-star"><img alt="" loading="eager" src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63ea8638d773b931b678c783_Star%202.svg" class="contain-image"/><img alt="" loading="eager" src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63ea86380477066bca121257_Star%202-2.svg" class="mark-as-fav-star-overlay"/></div><div class="text-gray-200">Favorite</div></div><input id="mark-as-fav-btn-submit" type="submit" data-wait="" class="mark-as-fav-button submit w-button" value=""/></form><div class="mark-as-favourite-success w-form-done"><div class="mark-as-fav-button completed"><div class="mark-as-fav-star"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63ea863802cbafc3605aaeb6_Star%202-1.svg" loading="lazy" alt="" class="contain-image"/></div><div class="text-gray-200">Favorite</div></div></div><div class="fav-error-state w-form-fail"><div>Oops! Something went wrong.</div></div></div><div id="favorite" class="mark-as-fav-button post-submit"><div class="mark-as-fav-star"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63ea863802cbafc3605aaeb6_Star%202-1.svg" loading="eager" alt="" class="contain-image"/></div><div class="text-gray-200">Favorite</div></div></div><h1 id="card-heading" class="h3-style no-margin">Does Your Spouse Have Your Permission? From Steve and Barbara Telzerow</h1></div><div class="up-social-share-wrap"><a id="up-facebook" rel="noopener" href="#" target="_blank" class="up-social-share-link w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63ed3924aaa54f5e2408587e_Vector.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Facebook Icon" class="up-social-share-icon"/><div>Share</div></a><a id="up-twitter" rel="noopener" href="#" target="_blank" class="up-social-share-link w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/65290fff997559049b962b8e_social%20(1).svg" loading="lazy" alt="Twitter Logo" class="up-social-share-icon"/><div>Post</div></a><a id="up-email" rel="noopener" href="#" target="_blank" class="up-social-share-link w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63ed39250cf081638cb2f1a4_Vector-2.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Email Icon" class="up-social-share-icon"/><div>Email</div></a></div><a href="#" class="button-white margin-bot-m w-inline-block w-dyn-bind-empty w-lightbox"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63579a6f6e27cfe861136d7c_Vector%2097.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Play Arrow" class="play-button-arrow"/><div>Watch Intro Video</div>
513<script type="application/json" class="w-json">{
514  "items": [],
515  "group": ""
516}</script>
516</a><div class="horizontal-divider max-width-624 margin-bot-m"></div><div data-rich-text="paragraph" class="universal-rich-text articles w-richtext"><p>Courtship and the first few months of marriage is a unique time in a couple’s relationship. We are usually focused on our partner’s strengths and rarely aware of the weaknesses or quirks that all of us have. This has been pointed out in the well-known statement “First opposites attract and then opposites attack.” </p><p>When two people live in such close proximity on a daily basis, it is inevitable that spouses will experience irritations due to the behaviors, habits, or customs of the other spouse. Every marriage is a cross-cultural experience. Tensions arise over the myriad of differences that males and females have, not to mention differences in temperament, personality, spiritual gifting, and family history.</p><p>Of course, it is very important for every couple to work hard at keeping a positive climate between them. In my home specifically, no one else is responsible for its atmosphere other than my wife, Barbara, and me. If negativity becomes a regular part of our culture, then we are responsible for it. That is not to shame anyone, but to empower everyone, because we have the power to change it. At the same time, we need to figure out a way to be able to address issues between us that may be sensitive to one or the other without things escalating on the Crazy Cycle. How can we successfully remove the speck in our spouse’s eye that is apparent to us but not conscious to them? Jesus gave us a process in Matthew 7:1-5 to help make these inevitable “conversations” fruitful.</p><h3>Giving Permission</h3><p>It is important for couples to give permission to each other to address issues that may be sensitive to the other. That means if we see something in each other that we feel is not good or maybe needs a little correction, or if we are expressing a need of ours that we feel has been neglected, then we agree to follow a few steps. This should be done during a peaceful time when no conflicts are apparent. Barbara and I have taken our cue from Matthew 7, when Jesus talks about not judging one another. We have to be careful with the standards and the measures we use with each other (v. 1). But it is impossible when two people are living so close to each other that we do not always notice weaknesses, shortcomings, misbehavior, or failures. But just as we hope that our spouse will be gracious with our shortcomings, so we should be with our spouses. </p><p>Of course, we must always be prepared to see the issues in our own life (the log) before we set out on our mission to inform our spouse about the issues in their life (the speck). The “log” is a reminder to be strict with me and gracious with my spouse. In many cases, a person can become strict and critical of their spouse while easily letting me off the hook at every turn. This awareness of the disproportionate size between a log and a speck puts us in the right frame of mind when needing to confront. This will at least temper our approach to avoid sounding judgmental or self-righteous when genuinely wanting to help our spouse. </p><p>What does giving permission look like? One day, I said to Barbara while drinking coffee together, &quot;Babe, if you see anything in my behavior, attitudes, or words that are less than honorable, then I want to give you permission to let me know. I know I have weaknesses and we have been given to each other as a catalyst for growth. If you see something that is worth pointing out, then I give you permission to let me know. However, please do it respectfully.&quot; I know Barbara is good-willed and equipped with an awareness of my need for respect, so she will use this permission wisely. With this statement I paved the way for her to approach me while also setting out expectations. Barbara then reciprocated, &quot;Steve, if you see anything in my behavior, attitudes, or words that are less than honorable, then I want to give you permission to let me know. If you see something that is worth pointing out, then you have my permission to let me know. However, please do it lovingly.&quot; </p><h3>Be Aware of the Natural Defense System</h3><p>This gives us the basis and permission we need to help remove the speck (v. 5). However, even when we have permission, it is important that we move gently and slowly when highlighting a weakness or undesirable behavior in our spouse. It is human nature to defend ourselves when something in our behavior, attitudes, or words is called 
516into question. Our defense system of self-justification kicks in and sabotages any good-willed attempt to address our flesh. Of course, it is wise to choose our battles carefully, but when two people are living in such close proximity, it is inevitable that they will need to address each other’s &quot;issues.&quot; Of course, we never touch the dignity of our spouse, but addressing behaviors, attitudes, or words should be allowed.</p><p>The picture of a speck in the eye is very illustrative. I cannot get a speck out of Barbara&#x27;s eye without both her permission <em>and her </em>cooperation. If I go at it on my own terms, then I will cause her more harm than help. My approach, tone, word choice, timing, and location all play a role in the success of removing a speck. In approaching Barbara I need to do it lovingly. When Barbara approaches me she needs to do it respectfully. Cooperation is key. Letting our partner know, &quot;Hey Steve, do you remember when we gave each other permission to address any behavior, attitude, or words that we thought was less than honorable?... &quot; This &quot;introduction&quot; gives Steve enough time to keep the reins on his defensive horses from getting away from him. Her request was honorable. I am reminded that we gave this permission. I may not like what I am about to hear, but I have to be the mature one and &quot;take it like a man.&quot; And of course she will be able to &quot;take it like a woman.&quot; J </p><h3>Move with Caution</h3><p>Even when permission is given, we have to move toward the eye that contains a speck gently and slowly. The actual physical attempt to remove a speck from another person’s eye should be illustrative of the gentle approach we need for a successful conversation about the issues that couples must talk about. Imagine working with another person to get something out of their eye. You can’t go there if they won’t let you. If they let you then they will put their head back, use their hand to open their eye socket, and then gesture to let you in. All of this clearly points to a careful and gentle approach. Seek to understand first. Don’t be accusative toward your spouse. Make your need known and use the filter of love and respect for your speech. All this can make these kinds of &quot;confrontations&quot; more fruitful. I don&#x27;t necessarily like them, but I know they are good for me. It is kind of like eating my vegetables when I was a kid. I didn&#x27;t like eating them, but they were good for me nonetheless. </p><h3>A Speck Not Sawdust Everywhere</h3><p>Jesus pointed out something very important about human nature. We were not designed to carry or handle large amounts of negativity. It is important that we keep the relationship positive. We must avoid flooding our spouse with negativity or too many issues at once. The passage in Matthew 7 refers to a speck (singular). As a general rule, when a spouse feels the necessity to address their partner following the guidelines spelled out here, limit the number of issues to one maybe two. If you are not sure then ask your spouse. Avoid flooding your spouse, particularly husbands who are more vulnerable to perceived criticisms, by bringing up multiple issues at one time. We are talking about a speck and not sawdust everywhere.</p><p>Barbara has alerted me to conversations with people when it seemed that I was ignoring them or I may have said something in a less-than-friendly tone. She did not do it immediately, but when we were in private with no apparent stress. &quot;Steve, do you remember when we gave permission . . . ? I&#x27;m not criticizing you. You are so good with people. It seemed to me last time when talking with Marko that you ignored his question. You may have been thinking about something else. However, it might be good just to call him and offer a response.&quot; We&#x27;ve had issues with raising the kids, discipline, and responses to the kids that we may not have agreed with. When Barbara became a little historical (not hysterical) with one of our sons when addressing him, I later said, “Do you remember that we gave permission to each other [I smile and wait] . . . ? May I point out one thing from last time when you and Tim were talking [renew the permission]? You are so good with the boys. I just noticed that you got historical with him and brought up things from the past. It seemed a little unfair. However, I totally agree he needs to keep the room clean.” By following these guidelines it has helped us to address sensitive issues without them blowing up into Crazy Cycle arguments. We are certainly not experts. We are still learning how to do this lovingly and respectfully.</p><h3>A quick summary for these Rules of Engagement:</h3><p>1. Give permission to your spouse. Be the mature one and move first.</p><p>2. Be aware of the log. Remember the disproportionate size.</p><p>3. Reaffirm your partner&#x27;s permission to highlight “one” issue.</p><p>4. Seek cooperation.</p><p>5. Move gently and carefully, speaking with love and respect.</p><p>6. Keep things positive.</p></div><div class="up-author-wrap w-dyn-list"><div role="list" class="full-width w-dyn-items"><div role="listitem" class="up-author-item w-dyn-item"><div class="up-author-image-wrapper"><img src="" loading="lazy" alt="" class="cover-image w-dyn-bind-empty"/></div><div class="column"><div class="host-guest-name">Steve Telzerow</div><div class="text-small no-margin text-gray-200 w-dyn-bind-empty"></div></div></div><div role="listitem" class="up-author-item w-dyn-item"><div class="up-author-image-wrapper"><img src="" loading="lazy" alt="" class="cover-image w-dyn-bind-empty"/></div><div class="column"><div class="host-guest-name">Barbara Telzerow</div><div class="text-small no-margin text-gray-200 w-dyn-bind-empty"></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="horizontal-divider max-width-624 margin-bot-m"></div><div class="universal-post-content-wrapper questions-to-consider"><h2 class="h3-style margin-bot-m">Questions to Consider</h2><div class="universal-rich-text questions-to-consider w-richtext"><ol role="list"><li>How might giving your spouse explicit permission to point out weaknesses change the way you both handle conflict?</li><li>In what ways could focusing first on the “log” in your own eye transform a potentially defensive conversation into one of mutual growth?</li><li>
516Why is it so important to address only one or two issues at a time rather than flooding your partner with multiple concerns?</li><li>What would it look like in your marriage to approach a sensitive topic with the same care and cooperation required to remove a speck from someone’s eye?</li></ol></div></div></div></div><div id="recommended-section" class="section margin-bot-m"><div class="container"><div class="heading-holder left-aligned up-page"><div class="heading-wrap left-aligned"><h2 class="h3-style no-margin">Articles You Might Also Like</h2></div><div class="horizontal-divider heading"></div></div><div class="full-width"><div class="cms-wrapper no-margin w-dyn-list"><div id="recommended-list" role="list" class="cms-list w-dyn-items"><div role="listitem" class="cms-item w-dyn-item"><a href="/blog/two-aims-in-the-bedroom-avoiding-avoidance-and-appealing-without-demanding" class="cms-card w-inline-block"><div class="cms-image-wrapper"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb26768776cde88fe33e/69083a40c634cb1c87944eff_October%20Webinar%20-%20%20Two%20Aims%20in%20the%20Bedroom%20Avoiding%20Avoidance%20and%20Appealing%20Without%20Demanding.jpg" loading="lazy" alt="Two Aims in the Bedroom: Avoiding Avoidance and Appealing Without Demanding" class="cms-image"/></div><div class="cms-card-content articles"><div class="column"><h3 class="h5-style">Two Aims in the Bedroom: Avoiding Avoidance and Appealing Without Demanding</h3><p class="text-small mobile-invisible">Many couples long for closeness but quietly struggle with distance - not because they&#x27;ve stopped loving each other, but because they&#x27;ve stopped feeling safe to talk about what they truly need.</p></div><div class="cms-item-metadata-wrap"><div style="color:hsla(0, 0.00%, 100.00%, 1.00);background-color:hsla(201.55339805825244, 96.26%, 41.96%, 1.00)" class="category-tag">Marriage</div><div class="episode-info-wrapper"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/630903e57b1601ec482e3c00_62ebb42548dda87c21df1a0f_clock.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Image duration icon" class="episode-info-icon duration"/><div class="margin-right-4">42</div><div>min read</div></div></div><div class="name-hidden">Two Aims in the Bedroom: Avoiding Avoidance and Appealing Without Demanding</div></div></a><div class="social-share-wrapper"><div style="-webkit-transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-moz-transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-ms-transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);display:none;opacity:0" class="social-share-block"><a rel="noopener" href="#" target="_blank" class="social-share-button facebook w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/630903e7ac9cfa69e1332241_62ee2aabd05b79c705f5bf20_Vector.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Facebook Icon" class="social-share-icon"/><div>Share</div></a><div class="horizontal-divider margin-bot-8"></div><a rel="noopener" href="#" target="_blank" class="social-share-button twitter w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/65290c99ede77d73d7382f27_social.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Twitter Logo" class="social-share-icon"/><div>Post</div></a><div class="horizontal-divider margin-bot-8"></div><a href="#" target="_blank" class="social-share-button email w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/630903e71b9664905cc20f9d_62ee2b6fd05b798d38f5c924_Vector.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Email Icon" class="social-share-icon"/><div>Email</div></a><div class="horizontal-divider margin-bot-8"></div><div class="social-share-close-button">Close</div></div><div data-w-id="cda04fd9-8c72-30f3-8abd-8a95da508546" class="cms-card-share-dots"><div class="share-dot first"></div><div class="share-dot"></div><div class="share-dot"></div></div></div></div><div role="listitem" class="cms-item w-dyn-item"><a href="/blog/your-marriage-isnt-complex-to-figure-out-let-me-tell-you
516-why" class="cms-card w-inline-block"><div class="cms-image-wrapper"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb26768776cde88fe33e/64f0f56e5700efe402e310a4_Your%20Marriage%20Isn%E2%80%99t%20Complex%20to%20Figure%20Out.%20Let%20Me%20Tell%20You%20Why.avif" loading="lazy" alt="Your Marriage Isn’t Complex to Figure Out. Let Me Tell You Why" class="cms-image"/></div><div class="cms-card-content articles"><div class="column"><h3 class="h5-style">Your Marriage Isn’t Complex to Figure Out. Let Me Tell You Why</h3><p class="text-small mobile-invisible">Sarah and I have done Love and Respect Marriage Conferences since 1999. At these conferences we teach that love and respect are the two basic ingredients for a successful marriage. I wrote the book Love and Respect to explain the power and simplicity of this truth.However, we teach that wives lean toward the love side of the equation and husbands lean toward the respect side. This is based on Ephesians 5:33, which says, “Nevertheless, each individual among you also is to love his own wife even as himself, and the wife must see to it that she respects her husband.”</p></div><div class="cms-item-metadata-wrap"><div style="color:hsla(0, 0.00%, 100.00%, 1.00);background-color:hsla(201.55339805825244, 96.26%, 41.96%, 1.00)" class="category-tag">Marriage</div><div class="episode-info-wrapper"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/630903e57b1601ec482e3c00_62ebb42548dda87c21df1a0f_clock.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Image duration icon" class="episode-info-icon duration"/><div class="margin-right-4">4</div><div>min read</div></div></div><div class="name-hidden">Your Marriage Isn’t Complex to Figure Out. Let Me Tell You Why</div></div></a><div class="social-share-wrapper"><div style="-webkit-transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-moz-transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-ms-transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);display:none;opacity:0" class="social-share-block"><a rel="noopener" href="#" target="_blank" class="social-share-button facebook w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/630903e7ac9cfa69e1332241_62ee2aabd05b79c705f5bf20_Vector.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Facebook Icon" class="social-share-icon"/><div>Share</div></a><div class="horizontal-divider margin-bot-8"></div><a rel="noopener" href="#" target="_blank" class="social-share-button twitter w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/65290c99ede77d73d7382f27_social.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Twitter Logo" class="social-share-icon"/><div>Post</div></a><div class="horizontal-divider margin-bot-8"></div><a href="#" target="_blank" class="social-share-button email w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/630903e71b9664905cc20f9d_62ee2b6fd05b798d38f5c924_Vector.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Email Icon" class="social-share-icon"/><div>Email</div></a><div class="horizontal-divider margin-bot-8"></div><div class="social-share-close-button">Close</div></div><div data-w-id="cda04fd9-8c72-30f3-8abd-8a95da508546" class="cms-card-share-dots"><div class="share-dot first"></div><div class="share-dot"></div><div class="share-dot"></div></div></div></div><div role="listitem" class="cms-item w-dyn-item"><a href="/blog/he-is-resurrected" class="cms-card w-inline-block"><div class="cms-image-wrapper"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb26768776cde88fe33e/64f9e06294c3d020c999b382_He%20is%20Resurrected!.avif" loading="lazy" alt="He is Resurrected!" class="cms-image"/></div><div class="cms-card-content articles"><div class="column"><h3 class="h5-style">He is Resurrected!</h3><p class="text-small mobile-invisible">I once stayed in the home of Bernhard Langer, two-time winner of the Masters, one of the PGA Tour’s four major tournaments. As a result of the positive effect my Love and Respect ministry had on their marriage, he and his wife, Vikki, asked me to spend several days at their home, and during that time, he shared his personal story with me. In 1985 when he won the Masters for the first time at Augusta, Georgia, the announcers ushered him into the infamous cabin where one of them asked him, “Did you look at the leaderboard?” Bernhard replied, “I was trying not to look, but I saw it for the first time at the ninth; and I thought, ‘Jesus Christ, I am playing well, and I am four shots behind!’”</p></div><div class="cms-item-metadata-wrap"><div style="color:hsla(0, 0.00%, 100.00%, 1.00);background-color:hsla(158.08695652173913, 96.64%, 23.33%, 1.00)" class="category-tag">Christian Life</div><div class="episode-info-wrapper"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/630903e57b1601ec482e3c00_62ebb42548dda87c21df1a0f_clock.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Image duration icon" class="episode-info-icon duration"/><div class="margin-right-4">3</div><div>min read</div></div></div><div class="name-hidden">
516He is Resurrected!</div></div></a><div class="social-share-wrapper"><div style="-webkit-transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-moz-transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-ms-transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);display:none;opacity:0" class="social-share-block"><a rel="noopener" href="#" target="_blank" class="social-share-button facebook w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/630903e7ac9cfa69e1332241_62ee2aabd05b79c705f5bf20_Vector.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Facebook Icon" class="social-share-icon"/><div>Share</div></a><div class="horizontal-divider margin-bot-8"></div><a rel="noopener" href="#" target="_blank" class="social-share-button twitter w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/65290c99ede77d73d7382f27_social.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Twitter Logo" class="social-share-icon"/><div>Post</div></a><div class="horizontal-divider margin-bot-8"></div><a href="#" target="_blank" class="social-share-button email w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/630903e71b9664905cc20f9d_62ee2b6fd05b798d38f5c924_Vector.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Email Icon" class="social-share-icon"/><div>Email</div></a><div class="horizontal-divider margin-bot-8"></div><div class="social-share-close-button">Close</div></div><div data-w-id="cda04fd9-8c72-30f3-8abd-8a95da508546" class="cms-card-share-dots"><div class="share-dot first"></div><div class="share-dot"></div><div class="share-dot"></div></div></div></div><div role="listitem" class="cms-item w-dyn-item"><a href="/blog/the-big-bang-and-jesus-in-wonder-we-believe-in-the-unseen-and-unknown" class="cms-card w-inline-block"><div class="cms-image-wrapper"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb26768776cde88fe33e/6a5c5ad54c8783adb421d928_The%20Big%20Bang%20and%20Jesus%20In%20Wonder%2C%20We%20Believe%20in%20the%20Unseen%20and%20Unknown.jpg" loading="lazy" alt="The Big Bang and Jesus: In Wonder, We Believe in the Unseen and Unknown" class="cms-image"/></div><div class="cms-card-content articles"><div class="column"><h3 class="h5-style">The Big Bang and Jesus: In Wonder, We Believe in the Unseen and Unknown</h3><p class="text-small mobile-invisible">Would you agree that some things are true yet unseen and unknown? Would you say that some things are inherently complex, beyond human comprehension and our current scientific capabilities?</p></div><div class="cms-item-metadata-wrap"><div style="color:hsla(0, 0.00%, 100.00%, 1.00);background-color:hsla(158.08695652173913, 96.64%, 23.33%, 1.00)" class="category-tag">Christian Life</div><div class="episode-info-wrapper"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/630903e57b1601ec482e3c00_62ebb42548dda87c21df1a0f_clock.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Image duration icon" class="episode-info-icon duration"/><div class="margin-right-4">7</div><div>min read</div></div></div><div class="name-hidden">The Big Bang and Jesus: In Wonder, We Believe in the Unseen and Unknown</div></div></a><div class="social-share-wrapper"><div style="-webkit-transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-moz-transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);-ms-transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);transform:translate3d(105%, -105%, 0) scale3d(1, 1, 1) rotateX(0) rotateY(0) rotateZ(0) skew(0, 0);display:none;opacity:0" class="social-share-block"><a rel="noopener" href="#" target="_blank" class="social-share-button facebook w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/630903e7ac9cfa69e1332241_62ee2aabd05b79c705f5bf20_Vector.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Facebook Icon" class="social-share-icon"/><div>Share</div></a><div class="horizontal-divider margin-bot-8"></div><a rel="noopener" href="#" target="_blank" class="social-share-button twitter w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/65290c99ede77d73d7382f27_social.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Twitter Logo" class="social-share-icon"/><div>Post</div></a><div class="horizontal-divider margin-bot-8"></div><a href="#" target="_blank" class="social-share-button email w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/630903e71b9664905cc20f9d_62ee2b6fd05b798d38f5c924_Vector.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Email Icon" class="social-share-icon"/><div>Email</div></a><div class="horizontal-divider margin-bot-8"></div><div class="social-share-close-button">Close</div></div><div data-w-id="cda04fd9-8c72-30f3-8abd-8a95da508546" class="cms-card-share-dots"><div class="share-dot first"></div><div class="share-dot"></div><div class="share-dot"></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="full-width w-condition-invisible"><div class="cms-wrapper no-margin w-dyn-list"><div class="display-none w-dyn-empty"><div>No items found.</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="section collections-section"><div class="container collections"><div id="w-node-c7731fab-156a-ec28-1a1d-37b8d1e32a8e-d1e32a8c" class="column collections-column"><h2 class="h3-style margin-bot-8">Collections</h2><p class="text-small no-margin">Articles, Podcasts, Ask Emerson on a concept or theme</p></div><a id="w-node-c7731fab-156a-ec28-1a1d-37b8d1e32a93-d1e32a8c" href="/collections" class="button-link w-inline-block"><div>View More Collections</div><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/6308f88478f866f5cdc0222c_Vector%2018.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Chevron" class="button-link-arrow"/></a><div id="w-node-c7731fab-156a-ec28-1a1d-37b8d1e32a98-d1e32a8c" class="horizontal-divider collections"></div><div id="original" class="collections-swiper w-node-_57bc3fb4-13ef-566b-f707-d06f78251155-d1e32a8c w-dyn-list"><div role="list" class="swiper-wrapper collections-list w-dyn-items"><div role="listitem" class="swiper-slide cms-item collection-card w-dyn-item"><a href="/collections/unconditional-love-and-respect-in-marriage" class="collections-link w-inline-block"><div class="collections-card-image-wrapper"><img loading="lazy" style="background-color:#f77758" alt="" src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb26768776cde88fe33e/645539aef1d4c33c5fe1f980_Collection-Graphics_2_transparent11Unconditional-Love.avif" 
516class="collections-card-image"/></div><div class="collection-card-name"><h3 class="h5-style no-margin">Unconditional Love and Respect In Marriage</h3></div></a></div><div role="listitem" class="swiper-slide cms-item collection-card w-dyn-item"><a href="/collections/the-rewarded-cycle" class="collections-link w-inline-block"><div class="collections-card-image-wrapper"><img loading="lazy" style="background-color:#709d89" alt="" src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb26768776cde88fe33e/645548b58be66e00440452a3_The%20Rewarded%20Cycle.avif" class="collections-card-image"/></div><div class="collection-card-name"><h3 class="h5-style no-margin">The Rewarded Cycle</h3></div></a></div><div role="listitem" class="swiper-slide cms-item collection-card w-dyn-item"><a href="/collections/sexual-intimacy" class="collections-link w-inline-block"><div class="collections-card-image-wrapper"><img loading="lazy" style="background-color:#26c36c" alt="" src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb26768776cde88fe33e/645539f0b2a7642f18327fbe_Collection-Graphics_2_transparent11Sexual-Intimacy.avif" class="collections-card-image"/></div><div class="collection-card-name"><h3 class="h5-style no-margin">Sexual Intimacy</h3></div></a></div><div role="listitem" class="swiper-slide cms-item collection-card w-dyn-item"><a href="/collections/women-need-respect-and-men-need-love" class="collections-link w-inline-block"><div class="collections-card-image-wrapper"><img loading="lazy" style="background-color:#f5d9b7" alt="" src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb26768776cde88fe33e/64553a587fecad5bbbe8e939_Collection-Graphics_2_transparent11Men-need-love-and-women-need-respect.avif" class="collections-card-image"/></div><div class="collection-card-name"><h3 class="h5-style no-margin">Women Need Respect and Men Need Love</h3></div></a></div></div></div><div id="w-node-_746ce9f6-5a49-db1d-6fcc-ca2ae47667f6-d1e32a8c" class="horizontal-divider"></div><div id="w-node-_5f21473a-7a05-17ba-539c-03df648983e5-d1e32a8c" class="collection-card"></div></div></div><footer class="footer-section"><div class="container grid footer-grid"><div id="w-node-a04dda81-cb95-55d5-fb94-d69eb871cf1c-8dccf103" class="column first-footer-column"><div class="footer-brand"><a data-ms-content="!all-access-membership" href="/" class="footer-brand-link w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63cfda152af1e25192c01f5d_image%201%20(Traced)%20(1).svg" loading="lazy" alt="" class="footer-logo"/></a><a data-ms-content="all-access-membership" href="/member-home" class="footer-brand-link w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63cfda152af1e25192c01f5d_image%201%20(Traced)%20(1).svg" loading="lazy" alt="" class="footer-logo"/></a></div><p class="footer-paragraph">606 E Division St. Ste C,</p><p class="footer-paragraph">Rockford, MI 49341</p><p class="footer-paragraph">(616) 951 7300</p></div><div id="w-node-_21ce8b96-68ab-106a-6654-244255f7b58c-8dccf103" class="column"><div class="footer-label">Resources</div><a href="/podcast" class="footer-link">Podcast</a><a href="/articles" class="footer-link">Articles</a><a href="/ask-emerson" class="footer-link">Ask Emerson</a><a href="/collections" class="footer-link">Collections</a><a href="/search" class="footer-link">Search</a><a href="/testimonials" class="footer-link">Testimonials</a></div><div id="w-node-_1fd33f6a-6755-e647-0366-872578e3ea4b-8dccf103" class="column"><div class="footer-label">Courses</div><a href="/courses" class="footer-link">All Online Courses</a><a href="/the-love-and-respect-experience" class="footer-link">Love and Respect Devotional</a><a href="/15-day-marriage-plan" class="footer-link">FREE 15 Day Plan</a></div><div id="w-node-c17f2486-28f6-7e6d-7eb5-f1985f1b3985-8dccf103" class="column"><div class="footer-label">Company</div><a href="/about-us" class="footer-link">About Us</a><a href="/contact-us" class="footer-link">Contact Us</a><a href="/events" class="footer-link">Events</a><a rel="noopener" href="https://give.loveandrespect.com/" target="_blank" class="footer-link">Give</a><a rel="noopener" href="https://mentor.loveandrespect.com/" target="_blank" class="footer-link">Marriage Mentoring</a></div><div id="w-node-fa9ba46b-4e3f-4a12-ec2c-4f9109e87441-8dccf103" class="column"><div class="footer-label">Store</div><a href="/store/all-products" class="footer-link">All Products</a><a href="/store/dvd-studies" class="footer-link">DVD Studies</a><a href="/store/books" class="footer-link">Books</a><a href="/store/gifts" class="footer-link">Gifts</a><div class="footer-shipping-links-column"><a href="/faq" class="footer-link no-margin">FAQ</a><a href="/returns-and-refunds" class="footer-link">Returns and Refunds</a><a href="/shipping-info" class="footer-link no-margin">Shipping Info</a></div></div><div id="w-node-a48203e1-124a-ea63-aaf2-80e027da8749-8dccf103" class="column"><div class="footer-label">Social</div><div class="footer-social-media-wrapper"><a rel="noopener" href="https://twitter.com/loverespectinc" target="_blank" class="footer-social-media-link w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/6529113702485b3480a5a18e_social%20(2).svg" loading="lazy" alt="Twitter Logo" class="contain-image"/></a><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.facebook.com/LoveRespectInc" target="_blank" class="footer-social-media-link fb w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63cffbadec703485508204c5_Vector-1.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Facebook Icon" class="contain-image"/></a><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/loverespectinc/" target="_blank" class="footer-social-media-link w-inline-block"><img src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/63cffbad0dbdf6b52d880189_Vector-2.svg" loading="lazy" alt="Instagram Icon" class="contain-image"/></a></div></div><div id="w-node-af49310b-c5dc-a20b-0f4e-4718c92d259f-8dccf103" class="footer-bottom-part"><p class="footer-copyright">Copyright <span id="copyright">2024</span> © Love &amp; Respect. All rights reserved.</p><div class="footer-utility-links-wrap">
516<a href="/terms-conditions" class="footer-link utility-page-link">Terms of Service</a><a href="/privacy-policy" class="footer-link utility-page-link">Privacy Policy</a></div></div></div></footer></div></div><div class="social-share-script w-embed w-script">
516<script>
517  let domainName = window.location.hostname;
518  let facebookShare = "https://www.facebook.com/sharer/sharer.php?u=";
519  let twitterShare = "https://twitter.com/share?url=";
520
521  const cmsItems = document.querySelectorAll(".cms-item");
522
523  cmsItems.forEach((item) => {
524    const cmsSlug = item.querySelector(".cms-card");
525    const faceBook = item.querySelector(".facebook");
526    const twitter = item.querySelector(".twitter");
527    const mail = item.querySelector(".email");
528
529    try {
530      const cardHeading = item.querySelector(".name-hidden").textContent.trim();
531
532      const itemSlug = cmsSlug.pathname;
533      let mailSubject = cmsSlug.pathname.split("/")[2];
534
535      faceBook.setAttribute(
536        "href",
537        facebookShare + "https://" + domainName + itemSlug
538      );
539      twitter.setAttribute(
540        "href",
541        twitterShare +
542        "https://" +
543        domainName +
544        itemSlug +
545        "&text=" +
546        cardHeading +
547        "%20%7C%20" //+
548       // domainName
549      );
550      mail.setAttribute(
551        "href",
552        "mailto:[email protected]?subject=" +
553        cardHeading +
554        "&body=" +
555        "Visit our page on a link: " +
556        "%0A" +
557        "https://" +
558        domainName +
559        itemSlug
560      );
561    } catch (error) {}
562  });
563</script>
563</div><div class="hide"><div class="w-dyn-list"><div class="w-dyn-empty"><div>No items found.</div></div></div></div>
563<script src="https://d3e54v103j8qbb.cloudfront.net/js/jquery-3.5.1.min.dc5e7f18c8.js?site=6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e" type="text/javascript" integrity="sha256-9/aliU8dGd2tb6OSsuzixeV4y/faTqgFtohetphbbj0=" crossorigin="anonymous"></script>
563<script src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/js/webflow.schunk.9c4189d21835a018.js" type="text/javascript" integrity="sha384-vAKf03v6jnvx/wEXW0yZkKjXCi4w5jThZYSoqxikgHGJIbmJx9Gyo4cbOkAOwJAV" crossorigin="anonymous"></script>
563<script src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/js/webflow.schunk.25c0cd3338febe92.js" type="text/javascript" integrity="sha384-pid/TPdYYz4ZNnDJmIPyegA/DT+e+4bMLfnxxFxRKdGzVekqLi1K+MtJCvgxRud2" crossorigin="anonymous"></script>
563<script src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/js/webflow.schunk.cd19d2296cc203a5.js" type="text/javascript" integrity="sha384-KbumiFgIGHxUN5Xqxmg1zsWtoLN+K7sZi3Vr5xJf46AjfwifGgNzJkX10TpGPJYa" crossorigin="anonymous"></script>
563<script src="https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6033bb06812d4c6b521b0c9e/js/webflow.fd84f9ab.f7ec24f6381b7ade.js" type="text/javascript" integrity="sha384-a0x8g8P+3oOaxEqBJjyg7wwmR/ksN/Kfy2dJ0Qoxqcse8VxDJvHQYqi7hbadJolc" crossorigin="anonymous"></script>
563<script> /*
564  $( "#nav-search-field" ).keyup(function() {
565    //let navDomain = window.location.hostname;
566    var searchField = document.getElementById("nav-search-field").value;
567    console.log(searchField);
568    var replacedNav = searchField.split(' ').join('+');
569    //var query = "?topic="
570    //var page = "/search"
571    //document.getElementById("nav-search-button").href = "/search"
572     // "/search?topic=" + replacedNav;
573  }); */
574</script>
574
575
576<script>
577  Webflow.push(function() {
578    // Disable submitting form fields during development
579    $('#nav-search-form').submit(function() {
580      return false;
581    });
582  });
583</script>
583
584
585
586
587<script>
588  var navSearchField = document.getElementById("nav-search-field");
589  navSearchField.addEventListener("keyup", function(event) {
590    if (event.keyCode === 13) {
591      event.preventDefault();
592	localStorage.setItem("searchParam", navSearchField.value)
593      document.getElementById("nav-search-button").click();
594    }
595  });
596	var searchNavButton = document.getElementById("nav-search-button")
597	searchNavButton.addEventListener("click", function(e){
598	if(navSearchField.value == ""){
599	e.preventDefault();
600	}else{
601	localStorage.setItem("searchParam", navSearchField.value)
602	}
603})
604</script>
604
605
606
607
608
609
610<!-- Disable Scroll Script -->
611<script>
612  var Webflow = Webflow || [];
613  Webflow.push(function () {
614    var $body = $(document.body);
615    var scrollPosition = 0;
616
617    $('[scroll="disable"]').on('click', function () {
618      var oldWidth = $body.innerWidth();
619      scrollPosition = window.pageYOffset;
620      $body.css('overflow', 'hidden');
621      $body.css('position', 'fixed');
622      $body.css('top', `-${scrollPosition}px`);
623      $body.width(oldWidth);
624    });
625    $('[scroll="enable"]').on('click', function () {
626      if ($body.css('overflow') != 'hidden') { scrollPosition = window.pageYOffset; }
627      $body.css('overflow', '');
628      $body.css('position', '');
629      $body.css('top', '');
630      $body.width('');
631      $(window).scrollTop(scrollPosition);
632    });
633    $('[scroll="both"]').on('click', function () {
634      if ($body.css('overflow') !== 'hidden') {
635        var oldWidth = $body.innerWidth();
636        scrollPosition = window.pageYOffset;
637        $body.css('overflow', 'hidden');
638        $body.css('position', 'fixed');
639        $body.css('top', `-${scrollPosition}px`);
640        $body.width(oldWidth);
641      } else {
642        $body.css('overflow', '');
643        $body.css('position', '');
644        $body.css('top', '');
645        $body.width('');
646        $(window).scrollTop(scrollPosition);
647      }
648    });
649  });
650</script>
650
651<!--
652<script>
653const nav_url = localStorage.getItem("img_url");
654if (nav_url) {
655const prefix =
656"https://webflow.com/api/sites/love-and-respect/formUploads/";
657$("#member-profile-image").attr("src", prefix + nav_url);
658}
659window.$memberstackDom.getCurrentMember().then((member) => {
660if (member.data) {
661if (member.data.metaData["Url Image"]) {
662$("#member-profile-image").attr("src", member.data.metaData["Url Image"])
663} 
664}
665}) 
666</script>
666  
667-->
668
669<script>
670  if ($(window).width() > 991) {
671    let navddlink = document.querySelectorAll(".nav-dropdown-link.dd ")
672    navddlink.forEach(function(item){
673      item.addEventListener('click', function(){
674        navddlink.forEach(function(item) {
675          item.classList.remove('active')
676        })
677        item.classList.add('active')
678      }, false)
679    })
680  }
681</script>
681
682
683
684<script>
685  window.addEventListener('DOMContentLoaded', () => {
686    $(".add_to_cart_button").click(() => {
687      document.querySelector(".slider_block_cart_footer").innerHTML = "";
688
689      const slider_component = document.querySelector(".slider_comp");
690      window.saveArray = new Array();
691      let sliderCartClone = slider_component.cloneNode(true);
692      saveArray.push(sliderCartClone.outerHTML);
693      localStorage["slide"] = JSON.stringify(saveArray);
694    });
695
696    var cart_list = document.getElementById('cart_list');
697
698    const config = {
699      childList: true,
700    };
701
702    const callback = () => {
703      if (cart_list.children.length > 0) {
704        document.querySelectorAll('.cart_item').forEach(cart_item => {
705          cart_item.querySelector('.qty_min').addEventListener('click', () => {
706            let input_val = Number(cart_item.querySelector('.cart_qty_input').value);
707            let input = cart_item.querySelector('.cart_qty_input');
708            input.value = input_val - 1;
709            input.dispatchEvent(new Event('change'));
710            console.log('OK_min');
711          });
712
713          cart_item.querySelector('.qty_plus').addEventListener('click', () => {
714            let input_val = Number(cart_item.querySelector('.cart_qty_input').value);
715            let input = cart_item.querySelector('.cart_qty_input');
716            input.value = input_val + 1;
717            input.dispatchEvent(new Event('change'));
718            console.log('OK_plus');
719          });
720        });
721      }
722    }; // Add this closing curly brace for the callback function
723
724    // Initialize the MutationObserver
725    const observer = new MutationObserver(callback);
726    observer.observe(cart_list, config);
727  });
728
729</script>
729
730
731<script>
732  /*
733window.addEventListener("load", (event) => {
734var myLibrary = document.querySelector("#my-library-link");
735var settings = document.querySelector("#settings-link");
736$memberstackDom.getAppAndMember().then((member) => {
737if (member.data) {
738if (member.data.member.id) {
739const url = member.data.member.id;
740myLibrary.setAttribute("href", `/members/${url}#My-Library`);
741settings.setAttribute("href", `/members/${url}#My-Settings`);
742}
743}
744});
745});
746*/
747</script>
747
748
749
750<script>document.getElementById('copyright').replaceWith(document.createTextNode(new Date().getFullYear()))</script>
750
751
752
753<!-- Google Tag Manager (noscript) -->
vendor: 68 bytes, lines 753-754
753
754<noscript><iframe src="https://www.googletagmanager.com/ns.html?id=
754GTM-M88VDVX7
vendor: 83 bytes, lines 754-755
754"
755height="0" width="0" style="display:none;visibility:hidden"></iframe></noscript>
756<!-- End Google Tag Manager (noscript) -->
757
758<!-- UTM capture → Memberstack custom fields -->
759<script>
760(function () {
761  const params = new URLSearchParams(window.location.search);
762  const utms = {
763    "utm-source": params.get("utm_source"),
764    "utm-medium": params.get("utm_medium"),
765    "utm-campaign": params.get("utm_campaign"),
766    "utm-content": params.get("utm_content")
767  };
768  if (Object.values(utms).some(v => v)) {
769    sessionStorage.setItem("pendingUtms", JSON.stringify(utms));
770  }
771})();
772
773document.addEventListener("DOMContentLoaded", function () {
774  var attempts = 0;
775  var maxAttempts = 10;
776  var interval = setInterval(function () {
777    attempts++;
778    if (window.location.pathname !== '/member-home') return;
779    if (attempts > maxAttempts) { clearInterval(interval); return; }
780    if (!window.$memberstackDom) return;
781    var stored = sessionStorage.getItem("pendingUtms");
782    if (!stored) { clearInterval(interval); return; }
783
784    window.$memberstackDom.getCurrentMember().then(function (res) {
785      var member = res && res.data;
786      if (!member) return;
787      var utms = JSON.parse(stored);
788      var customFields = {};
789      Object.keys(utms).forEach(function (k) { if (utms[k]) customFields[k] = utms[k]; });
790      if (Object.keys(customFields).length === 0) { clearInterval(interval); return; }
791
792      window.$memberstackDom.updateMember({ customFields: customFields }).then(function () {
793        sessionStorage.removeItem("pendingUtms");
794        clearInterval(interval);
795      });
796    });
797  }, 1000);
798});
799</script>
799<script src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/npm/swiper@8/swiper-bundle.min.js"></script>
799
800
801
802<script>
803  var x = document.querySelector(".up-content-wrapper")
804  if(x.getAttribute("data-ms-content") == ""){
805    $("#gated-overlay").remove()
806  }
807</script>
807
808
809<script>
810  if ($(window).width() < 768) {
811    var collectionsSwiper = new Swiper ('.collections-swiper', {
812      slidesPerView: 'auto',
813      a11y: false,
814      slidesPerGroup: 1,
815      centeredSlides: true,
816      loop: true,
817      allowTouchMove: true,
818    });
819  }
820</script>
820
821
822<script>
823  let a = "Does Your Spouse Have Your Permission? From Steve and Barbara Telzerow"
824  $("#Article-Name").val(a)
825
826  let b = "6ab314a01c7262666229aa24"
827  $("#article-id").val(b)
828
829  $( document ).ready(function() {
830    window.$memberstackDom.getCurrentMember().then((member) => {
831      if (member.data) {
832        $("#Webflow-Member-ID").val(member.data.customFields["webflow-member-id"])
833      } 
834    })
835  });
836/*
837  let completedArticles = "6ab314a01c7262666229aa24";
838  window.$memberstackDom.getCurrentMember().then((member) => {
839    if (member.data) {
840      if(member.data.metaData["Favorite Articles"].includes(completedArticles)){
841        document.getElementById('hide').style.display = 'none';
842        document.getElementById('favorite').style.display = 'flex';
843      } 
844    }
845  })  */
846</script>
846
847
848<!--
849<script src="https://code.jquery.com/jquery-3.7.0.slim.min.js"></script>
849 -->
850<script>
851  $(document).ready(function() {
852    $('#mark-as-fav-btn').click(function() {
853      $('#mark-as-fav-btn-submit').click();
854    });
855  });
856</script>
856
857
858<script>
859  var Webflow = Webflow || [];
860  Webflow.push(function() {
861    var ctaUrl = window.location.href;
862    $('#up-facebook').attr("href", 'https://www.facebook.com/sharer/sharer.php?u=' + ctaUrl);
863    $('#up-twitter').attr("href", 'https://twitter.com/share?url=' + ctaUrl);
864    $('#up-email').attr("href", 'mailto:[email protected]?&subjectDoes Your Spouse Have Your Permission? From Steve and Barbara Telzerow=&body=' + ctaUrl);
865
866  });
867</script>
867
868
869<!-- ============================================================
870     L&R PROGRESS — SCRIPT 1 OF 2 — DESTINATION PAGE TRACKER
871     Place in: Before </body> tag
872     On pages: Articles Template, Podcasts Template, Ask Emerson
873               Template, Site Videos Template
874     Knows nothing about Tracks. Records "this member read this
875     URL". The Tracks page does all the matching.
876     ============================================================ -->
877<script>
878(function () {
879  'use strict';
880
881  var CFG = {
882    storageKey:    'lr_read_v1',
883    jsonNamespace: 'trackProgress',
884    dwellSeconds:  45,
885    // Only record reads on these path prefixes. Guards against the
886    // embed accidentally landing on a page it shouldn't track.
887    allowPrefixes: ['/blog/', '/podcast/', '/ask-emerson/', '/site-videos/'],
888    // If this element is still in the DOM at threshold time, the
889    // member does not have access and nothing is recorded. The
890    // existing template script removes it for entitled members.
891    gateSelector: '#gated-overlay',
892    debug: false
893  };
894
895  function log() {
896    if (CFG.debug && window.console) console.log.apply(console, ['[LR progress]'].concat([].slice.call(arguments)));
897  }
898
899  // ---- path normalisation -----------------------------------
900  // Strips query, hash, trailing slash; lowercases. Must match
901  // the normaliser in Script 2 exactly or nothing will line up.
902  function normPath(p) {
903    p = (p || window.location.pathname).split('?')[0].split('#')[0].toLowerCase();
904    if (p.length > 1 && p.charAt(p.length - 1) === '/') p = p.slice(0, -1);
905    return p;
906  }
907
908  function isAllowed(path) {
909    for (var i = 0; i < CFG.allowPrefixes.length; i++) {
910      if (path.indexOf(CFG.allowPrefixes[i]) === 0) return true;
911    }
912    return false;
913  }
914
915  // ---- local storage ----------------------------------------
916  function readLocal() {
917    try {
918      return JSON.parse(window.localStorage.getItem(CFG.storageKey)) || {};
919    } catch (e) { return {}; }
920  }
921
922  function writeLocal(map) {
923    try { window.localStorage.setItem(CFG.storageKey, JSON.stringify(map)); }
924    catch (e) { log('localStorage write failed', e); }
925  }
926
927  // Keep the most recent timestamp for any given path.
928  function mergeMaps(a, b) {
929    var out = {}, k;
930    for (k in a) if (Object.prototype.hasOwnProperty.call(a, k)) out[k] = a[k];
931    for (k in b) if (Object.prototype.hasOwnProperty.call(b, k)) {
932      out[k] = out[k] ? Math.max(out[k], b[k]) : b[k];
933    }
934    return out;
935  }
936
937  // ---- Memberstack mirror -----------------------------------
938  function syncUp(localMap) {
939    var ms = window.$memberstackDom;
940    if (!ms) { log('no Memberstack DOM package on page'); return; }
941
942    ms.getCurrentMember().then(function (res) {
943      if (!res || !res.data) { log('not logged in, local only'); return; }
944      return ms.getMemberJSON().then(function (j) {
945        var json   = (j && j.data) || {};
946        var remote = json[CFG.jsonNamespace] || {};
947        json[CFG.jsonNamespace] = mergeMaps(remote, localMap);
948        return ms.updateMemberJSON({ json: json });
949      }).then(function () { log('synced to Memberstack'); });
950    })['catch'](function (e) { log('sync failed', e); });
951  }
952
953  // ---- mark as read -----------------------------------------
954  var marked = false;
955
956  // The L&R content templates gate with an overlay that stays on the
957  // same URL, so a non-member can sit on the page indefinitely. Dwell
958  // time alone does not filter them out — this check does.
959  function isGated() {
960    return !!(CFG.gateSelector && document.querySelector(CFG.gateSelector));
961  }
962
963  function mark() {
964    if (marked) return;
965    marked = true;
966
967    if (isGated()) { log('gate overlay still present, not recording'); return; }
968
969    var path = normPath();
970    if (!isAllowed(path)) { log('path not in allowlist, skipping', path); return; }
971
972    var map = readLocal();
973    map[path] = Date.now();
974    writeLocal(map);
975    log('marked read', path);
976    syncUp(map);
977  }
978
979  // ---- foreground-only dwell timer --------------------------
980  // Counts visible time only, so a tab opened and left in the
981  // background never accrues. Entitlement is handled separately
982  // by isGated() — dwell time alone does NOT filter non-members,
983  // because the gate is an overlay on the same URL.
984  var accrued = 0;
985  var lastTick = null;
986  var thresholdMs = CFG.dwellSeconds * 1000;
987
988  function tick() {
989    if (document.visibilityState === 'visible') {
990      var now = Date.now();
991      if (lastTick !== null) accrued += (now - lastTick);
992      lastTick = now;
993    } else {
994      lastTick = null;
995    }
996    if (accrued >= thresholdMs) {
997      mark();
998      clearInterval(timer);
999    }
1000  }
1001
1002  var timer = setInterval(tick, 1000);
1003  document.addEventListener('visibilitychange', function () {
1004    if (document.visibilityState !== 'visible') lastTick = null;
1005  });
1006
1007})();
1008</script>
1008
1009
1010</body></html>

Line numbers count LF bytes from the start of the resource, as the search results do. Vendor segments are library code the classifier recognised; they are stored but not indexed. Bytes are shown as Latin1 characters, one per byte.